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A few months ago I met a guy, who we had a nice date together. He lived abroad, and I thought that besides that one date, we could never really have anything serious. But then he started to message me every day, and we kinda become a long distance relationship. Remember, we only met once. We talked so much, we exchanged photos, videos, we know what the other was doing. Stupid, but I fell in love. He assured me that soon he will visit me, but then he had to change his job and move to a new apartment, so he was short on money. I didn't want to travel, because I didn't completely trust him. I wanted him to travel for me. And, he didn't live that far away. He could actually travel for me, if he wanted to, even with a low budget.
We started to talk less and less. I tried to keep us close, but he was distant, said he was busy. I didn't know if I could trust him, cause obviously I wasn't there to know. I know that he wasn't lying about his whereabouts or anything, everything was on FB. He lived his life on social media basically, I knew about everything. But he never told me what changed in him. He was always just saying that he was busy. Once, he just ignored me. Didn't reply me anymore. I was heartbroken for a while even before that happened, but then I just knew that it was over. I've been through a lot then and I really needed someone. Anyway, I survived.
I started to date again, I found an amazing guy.
2 months passed since the first guy left me without a reply, and now he started to message me again, like nothing happened. How I am, blah blah blah. And he said he still want to visit me. End of summer, maybe. When I told him that I started to date again, and I thought we're never going to talk anymore, ha said, then I should scrap off the new guy, and he will come and visit me sooner. And that he knows, that I know, that he's the better guy.
I can't believe I was in love with this ass.
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I believe guy 1 is a leech player lol. Its a made up word but it fits to the type of guy he is. Hangs on to you out of selfish reasons. Its only convenient for him to contact you when he "has time" or when it suits to him. I wouldn't be surprised if guy 1 has a wife/girlfriend and who knows with how many other women he does this too. He doesn't really show an interest in you or respect you and your time at all. Serves you right to not trust guy 1 at all.
I really think guy 1 is trouble and he will mess up your chance to be with the current guy you're seeing (guy 2). He's doing it to control you by giving you false promises to see you. Of he would come he comes to what fool around with you, then leave. Do not fall for it. Its two months!! He ignored you and didn't say a word.
Stay the hell away from guy 1. Tell him you don't want to scrap the new guy and that he shouldn't contact you anymore.
Cut contact and move on. He hurt you before. Its stupid to keep around a man like that. This guy needs to stay out of your life.
Guy one is not good enough with his excuses, let alone never gives you a real explanation. Disregarding like nothing ever happened, after the fact that he hurt you. Besides, you survived you don't need him and you're better off with someone worth your time and proves it.
Just be careful with guys in general. Make sure they aren't screwing around and using you for their selfish reasons.
Don't be gulible to quickly believe everything a guy tells you.
Even I am skeptical about guys actions and their words sometimes . . .
Have a good judgement on the guys you choose to go out with and pick.
Its not always easy, but make sure their motives aren't harmful and realistic.
Actions speaks louder than words. Pay attention to that.
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