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I wish people could see how hard I try to be liked. I good at a lot of things, I mean a lot. I taught myself how to play instruments, sing, paint and draw, fix things, write, even write music. I work so hard to do all these neat things but it doesn't interest anyone. It makes me sad. I try to get out there but people are just rude to me. I haven't done anything to deserve people being so cold, I don't like anything normally seen as weird. I'm shy but I'm not socially incapable by any means. Why doesn't anyone care that I'm here? Sorry, this wasn't me bragging or anything I just feel invisible.
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I just wanted to offer a different view, I was shy once upon a time, the crippling kind so I never talked to anyone, with that said maybe you are being noticed just the people who notice you are too shy to say anything. A person with such a string of abilities is very interesting to me and I have no problems saying that in this instance but if it was me many years ago I couldn't have even approached you to say anything even on the internet. Rude people are hardly shy so they are the first ones who say something. Keep trying and don't let rude people get you down and keep in mind weird can be a good thing, I am weird at heart and it never stopped me in life.
Keep your chin up, your not as invisible as you might think.
ReplyThank you so much, it means a lot to have another person's view on it. Maybe I just need to open my eyes a little
ReplyAfter reading this I knew what I was thinking but had no idea how to word it or put it into anything helpful for you, but I completely agree with what @TarnisCross said, and I don't know if they came up with this quote but I absolutely love it and had to screen shot it "Rude people are hardly shy so they are the first ones who say something". Anyway, I relate to this a lot but I often find my struggle in this being that half of me wants to put myself out there and make friends with people that find me and my interests fascinating, then half of me just keeps saying I don't want people to see or meet me the way I am because I'm not being the me of my full potential, the real me, I have growing to do. I don't know if that applies to you at all but if it doesn't I say, stop waiting for people to come to you and be more assertive. Sorry this comment got long.
ReplyNo apologies, and I totally understand. I'm glad there are people I know are in my shoes; it makes me feel less alone. I'm sorry that anyone relates but I hope you can get through it and get the most out of life.
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