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Should I stay with someone who has become my best friend or go and explore more things in life? I’m 24 and my best friend is... (here goes) 68! Yeah I know.. anyway we do everything together like eat dinner, go to SCHOOL (it’s both our Senior year in college), and even watch tv (kinda boring I know) but anyway he has helped me with a lot of things and like he always tells me, I have helped bring out his youth andshowes him new andvenrurea in his life. He always tells me that life is so much better now but here’s the problem.. I am not happy here! I want a bf so badly and here’s the other problem, he’s developing lots of feelings for me! Anyway, we are roommates and I’ve been living here for 2 years because on campus go too expensive and I’m away from home, but now I’m emotionally and physically drained and he won’t let me have any space! He wants to do everything together and he’s always trying to come in my room unannounced and I don’t want to be mean but I am so tired! I know this is a seriously awkward situation, so your advice would be so helpful Please and thanks in advance!
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I think you should date him
ReplyWhy
ReplyTypo: I have helped him bring out his youth and showed him new adventures in his life.
ReplyYou shouldn't lead anyone you aren't interested in on. Tell him you don't have romantic feelings for him. Maybe tell him you need a night to yourself. As a friend, he should understand.
ReplyBut I told him I’m not interested.. that’s the thing :(
ReplyI am sorry. I would keep telling him. I think you might have to find your own place or something if you can't convince him to give you space.
ReplyThanks your advice means a lot
ReplyYou need to move sweetheart
ReplyThnks. How would I do that? He’s literally like all the family I know. My family is so dysfunctional and distant towards me.. and my dad is in jail :( I feel like I have no one but him right now but I am just not happy here. Also, he helps me pay for school.
ReplyI agree you need to move and find financial assistance from other sources, it could be a loan, school assistance or another family member. Friends should respect boundaries. Also, when anyone starts having feelings for you, and you don't want to encourage it. It's time to run away from them as fast as you can.when people fall for you, it's a big mess, and not worth the pain.
ReplyI agree. I don’t have a job. I thought about moving back with my mom until I get on my feet. But I won’t stop school though
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