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The "suck it up" and "get over it" method.
Can't we understand that everyone is not the same. To be more specific, were not all the same mentally, emotionally and physically etc...
And neither is our experiences too.
Comparing each other's pain's and suffering like it's a competition. I personally don't care for the whole persona of "I'm suffering more and my pains are worst than yours" ordeal. Telling others they should be grateful and "get over themselves or to "suck it up". It highly depends on the whole circumstantial events that is going on in the person's life or their entire life.
Some people are stronger than others. As the term goes "Only the strong survive" ideology.
Why else do people kill themselves?
They probably sucked it up for far too long and little by little lost their minds being trapped in a place they didn't want to be. Had enough that they couldn't handle it any longer of what was going on in their life and what they felt. Breaking them and tearing them apart. It had gone so far "sucking it up" all the time that they reached a limit. It most likely too late for them to be saved.
Figured that suicide was a way out to end suffering.
I am starting to believe that I will end up dead by suicide. That's what's scary. Only the strong survive and I'm not strong enough,not for a long time.
So tell me, since when has it ever helped others to "get over it" and "suck it up"?
I didn't think so either.
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