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I'm breaking up with the guy I'm living with. But we still have to live together because we are stuck in a lease, even though he has more financial means than me he won't leave. I've thought of everything and tried to get a sublease but nothing seems to be working. He was the only person I could go to when my friend died and nobody knew how to help me, when my aunt died, when I got kicked out of my house and my mom went to the hospital. He was there for every single thing and he let me feel. He made me feel like me and brought out a side of me I didn't know existed. And then we moved in together and he became someone else. He's so cold hearted and cruel now, like he never loved me. I know we need to breakup but that's not what I want. I want his comfort because that's all I knew. It made me such a better person. How do I get over this? How do I find more people that love me? How do I find myself is all of this when part of myself was with him?
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Get. Out. Now.
He’s not who he was- stop looking for that person!
Go to family, friends, even the police if you have to- get out of there!!!
ReplyI'm trying but there's nowhere for me to go right now and I still need to pay rent. He hasn't abused me physically but I don't know what that counts for.. if anything. You're so right though. I need to stop looking for the person he used to be.
ReplyFamily and friends- if they love you, they’ll get you out of there no matter what. If that’s really not an option, then go to citizens advise, they can put you in touch with the right people to get out out of the toxic environment ASAP.
Be careful honey, never chase what used to be and what might have been over your mental health x
ReplyI needed these reminders so much. Hearing this helps put my mind back together again. Thank you
ReplyI know that it might feel really hard to let go, especially when he’s been there for you through really tough times, but he clearly isn’t treating you right, so just try to extract yourself somehow from the relationship. You deserve to be treated with respect and love.
Replythe extracting part is what is hard, I need a way to change my thoughts so I don't feel so reliant on him and I'm not sure how to do that yet, especially because we're living together
ReplyAh yes. I understand. I really don’t know what to say. For me it really helped me gain independence when my bf broke up with me for a while, we had time for ourselves, and then got back together. But I guess you can’t really do that here. Maybe try to extract yourself first emotionally and then physically.
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