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so im about to turn 16 and im a female. everyone, girls and boys, are already past the point of when they began masturbating. i've never done it. i dont feel any sexual urges, and i just dont like the feeling. i get like, wet and all, but i cant actually get pleasure. ive tried watching porn, but idk it just makes me cringe. like i cant imagine getting any satisfying. ive read the books, but im afraid that those will be my new expectations of my first time.
im just scared i wont like it. i want to, i really do. but i cant.
whats wrong with me?
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Nothings wrong with you, you don’t have to mastuerbate to feel normal. Do whatever you feel comfortable with
Replynothings wrong with you ❤️
ReplyI'm JUST like you & NOTHING is wrong with you!!!!!!!!
I experience the same shit and guess what? My ass is asexual.
I know it may seem too early to completely identify as one but you're almost through with your teen years and haven't experienced any sexual urges like most kids your age do even with all the experiments or whichever they're called. Asexuals feel really uncomfortable with the thought of themselves participating in sex. Just know that you don't have to like sex to be a "normal" teenager. You are perfectly fine they way you are and may turn out to be.
I hope this helped.
all the love
ReplyDear,
Nothing's wrong with you. You are completely 100% normal if you don't masturbate. I am 17 and I don't masturbate too. Don't like the society fool you. Real pleasure can be found within when you meditate and read books.
hope this helps
Replywell if anything makes u feel better i have never masturbated till i was 25 or 26. now im married. it's not a thing to feel weird about yourself
ReplyThere is nothing wrong with you. Don't rush into anything. Take your time and when the time comes make sure that it's special. There will be plenty of sex to come in your life so don't rush it. Porn is not true sex so it's best to stay away from it. Give yourself time.
ReplyNo, it's not what's wrong with you, it's what's right about you. There's too much sex going on in this world honestly and it's trying to turn love into lust. You're just stronger than that because you need genuine love.
ReplyThere is nothing wrong with not doing it but if you want to you might want to read an article on the Healthline website called "The No BS Guide to Clitoral Stimulation" I wish I had seen this years ago. Porn is unrealistic and usually caters to mens expectations of sex. If you don't want to, then don't. If you do want to, then do. But if you start to feel like you might want to have sex with someone you should definitely figure out what makes you feel good first so you can communicate that to your partner when the time comes.
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