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So I'm a girl. And I have a girlfriend. She asked me yesterday if I'd be in a long term relationship with her. I didnt answer her because even this little distance between our homes in the same city is not so bearable. Everytime we dont meet, I am upset. I cannot handke it much even when we're in the same city. What will I do when she goes away from here and I wont be able to see her for months and probably years. I know I wouldnt be able to handle it. I am sure I wont be able to handle it. Its not about trust. I trust her and I know she'll be mine even after she goes but I cannot be fine not seeing her. She asked me this and said she'll look out by April. I have 4months in hand and I dont know what to do. Even now we dont meet often and dont talk much bevause we're both busy but we talk. Whenever possible.
Should I let her go catch her dreams? I want to say yes and tell her she can go and be happy. She hates our city and she doesnt want to live with her parents. At the same time I wanna tell her to stay here with me. But on second thoughts I think I'm stopping her to be free in life and fhats bit something you do when you love someone. You dont deprive them of things they want.
I'm really confused. I am pisituve I wont be able to handle when she goes away. I really want her to be here, with me. But I want her to explore what she likes and do what she wishes to. My one No might change her decision and she'll stay back.
What if because of me, she doesnt get what she wants. I dont wanna trap her. I even thought of completely leaving her but that separation would just get us depressed.
I am so confused what to do. And I love her.
Tell me what should I do?
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ReplyThis helps. Thank you. I'll tell you what happens next.
ReplyI could kinda relate to your situation...When you get a chance to talk it out with her.. Tell her how you feel, you guy has to be on the same page. Because what if she's feeling a certain way.
I support you in every way
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ReplyThanks a lot. I'll let you know when I talk to her:)
ReplyIt just feels good to have some support. Even if I dont know you personally, it did make me smile.
Thank you:)
ReplyOfc! Im just glad I could help out a little.
ReplyShe started laughinf and hugged me so tight. She kissed me and whispered that if she goes, she'll take me with her. Lol I was overthinking I guess. But she said she may go. She's not sure.
Anyway.. Thanks a lot:)
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