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I'm 16, I'm a sophomore. I'm a girl, I'm fat I weight 261lbs and I'm 5'6. I'm also a cheerleader who knows EVERYBODY. I talk with all the "cliques", boys and girls. I've never had a boyfriend, and have only heard maybe once a year a guy has a crush on me. I think it's because I'm fat, I played 3 years of volleyball in middle school, and 2 years of basketball. I'm hoping some of this weight is muscle. All of my friends have boyfriend's and are flirting. I confessed to a guy I liked last year on Snapchat, he left me on read and unfriended me. Just earlier today, I asked this guy I for his snap and he told me he didn't have one, I know he does. I know it's not the end of the world but I am really starting g to feel lonely. Like incredibly. I also have about 4 best friends, I only hang out with 2 on the weekends. But I've been home lately. I'm starting to feel like I bother them, like since I joined cheerleading I have become a different person. Right now my hands are shaking and I'm stuck in my thoughts. Why am I lonely when I have many friends?
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Im 16 and a junior and honestly, its not about how many friends you have, its about the quality of the friendships and you have to think if they're the type of people you truly want to be around. i recently cut off almost all of my friends because they made me a person i didnt want to be and did stuff i just didnt want to do. Make new bonds with people. sometimes its the most unexpected who make you feel the most valued. Also about what you said with your weight make little chances and theyll pay off, you'll always be your worst critic though so dont think everyone views you the way you do.
ReplyFrom a 24 year old post grad, I wish I had amazing words of encouragement. I've always struggled with my weight, with friends. But I will tell you this, you will find people, and sometimes you're gonna have to search long and hard, who will make that loneliness stop. Who will make you imagine, " I can be loved too. "
It's not easy, it's actually pretty seemingly impossible at times. But just keep at it. You'll find your way, as long as you don't give up. Start by talking with your friends. Confide in them, and if they're actually there for you, you'll find nothing but love.
And to go off the other comment, remember, both Christmas lights and flowers are pretty, but they're pretty in such completely different ways, they can't be compared. Maybe you just haven't found someone looking for the beauty you have.
Replywho cares wth, people think of you, you know about your self. so dont let them put you down over dumb things
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