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im 25 and this is the third time i am not only a bridesmaid, but a maid of honor. and to top that off, another friend asked me to be a bridesmaid for her. i have even been a bridesmaid's assistant for a girl i barely knew.
i get it. these women love and trust me. i sometimes feel i wont have anyone to (a) marry and (b) be my bridesmaid when my time comes. i guess that's not entirely true. i have younger cousins i treat like sisters, so i know they will be stoked when my time comes.
the only issue is...i feel something is wrong with me. i've been dating and searching for a few years now. i can't seem to find "the one." i recognize we kinda make someone into our "one" but i can't even seem to identify someone who i want to be the one. when i did, he didn't even want to date me.
i feel im running out of options. i have accepted i might become a barren old hag with a ton of cats. i might adopt children if i don't end up freezing my eggs in my 30s. i don't know what to do. how can i feel better?
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I wouldn't worry. I know it's a girl thing to feel we will grow old and barren. Heck, now they can inject hormones and suck out eggs, females past menopause still capable of bearing children. You can always as you mention freeze some of your eggs down the road if you want. Don't sweat it. I know people who were married for close to 15 or 20 years before deciding to have kids. They still had babies. I guess it's always played up like it's a miracle to have a baby when all it takes is put eggs with sperm, and with the right conditions nature often can do the rest!
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