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Hi...I am in a relationship with my bestfriend.Everything seems to be normal but it isnt.That person's been acting really strange that hurts me a lot.I do know that person loves me but keeps on avoiding me for no reason....
Is this some kind of sign for a breakup??
I really dont know what to do :(
please gimme some advice :(
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May be he/she busy in developing their career... Better ask them...
ReplyTalk to your best friend, tell him/her how much it’s hurting you and ask for reason behind ignorance.
ReplyI know exactly what you’re feeling. I fell in love with my best friend and everything seems so perfect. Then, out of nowhere we broke up.
But do not worry, we are different people with a slightly similar situation. You know this person loves you, and you love them. Try expressing your concerns, offer them support if they’re going through a hard patch, just make sure to love them.
And if you two break up, it’s okay to cry. It’s okay to feel upset deep down in your stomach and heart. But don’t think you’re not worth It. I do not know anything about you, but this person will not be your last love. If you two break up, soon you’ll find someone new who will love you 10x harder.
Always try to see the positives. The negatives will eat away at you, consuming your mind and heart, but don’t let it. It’s not worth it to wallow in your self pity— please take my advice, it was so hard for me, and I don’t want to imagine more people feeling that way.
Just try talking to your significant other, work it out. As they say, communication is key to every relationship/friendship.
ReplySometime we expect more from other... And when someone doesn't reach our satisfaction we feel like defeated. Lots and lots of negative thoughts comes in our mind..may be it's one of them....or may be it's a part of break up .. you never know.... Actually it's you who have to decide. No one knows your condition better then yours. But yes, sometime too closeness creates distance or avoidness just give him some space.... Good for you and your relationship
ReplyI'm also in a relationship with my best friend, and sometimes I do feel like my them being distant from me. But then again, one of the benefit of having a relationship with your best friend is you both already too comfortable with each other even before become a partner, and those comforts can reach to the point where we think it's okay to ignore yout partner because they will surely understand. So I think it's better for you to try to talk it out. Maybe they're going through something that they don't or can't tell you. Another thing that I learn is even though we're best friend (and still) and even partner, sometimes not everything can be told. So, at least try to reach them out before start to assuming negative things (which I also do, alot) and try to understand their situation. Discuss this matters to them. Because one of the most important thing in relationship is communication. GOOD LUCK!
ReplyBut also, you really need to prepare for the better and for the worst. Anything can happen. No matter what that is, always remember that it's not your fault. Sometimes, someone doesn't meant to be in our life forever. Sometimes they only meant to teach us lessons. So, try to talk things out and solve the problem. Remember, it's not your relationshio. But yours and theirs relationship. You both in this together.
ReplyI know what your going through. ive been through the same exact thing. I was in a relationship with this boy who kept talking to another girl that he had all classes with and then every time I found out he did something wrong he would avoid me and lie to me. So after I finally had enough of it I talked to him and I told him that if he didn't get his self together than me and him couldn't be together. He did try to get everything together but I kept giving him chances and I knew I had to stop or he would just keep doing it so I finally just let him. But please don't compare my relationship to your. mine is not a good example. but anyways just try to alk to him and explain how you feel .
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