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I know people will say this needs time and all, but it’s pretty fucked up, and is really fucking me up in the head at this point.
2 days ago, I decided to end my half year relationship because I read some messages with him and another girl that were suspicious, the messages were from around a month ago but we were together at that point either way. I broke up with him Face to face but as our families are close, his mum called him and told him to go home (it was on speaker) so we continued it on text later that day. He messaged me and wrote paragraphs upon paragraphs of how I mean everything to him and how if he wouldn’t lose me, that would be an end to him, and that it would hurt him more than anything not to have me in his life. We spent the whole next day messaging eachother about this and he would go on, and on and give me more and more reasons why he can’t do it without me. I feel bad for the things I said to him now and even though it was just messages he kept on promising that he would stop speaking to any person that I don’t feel comfortable with him speaking to, (I’m not like that but I’d consider it) I still told him no and he begged for me back, his friend asked me what was up because he cancelled plans amd he never does that. I feel pretty guilty, today I messaged him to see if he was any better and he just replies with ‘ok.’, or ‘no’ ‘yeah’. I feel like I messed up, and obviously I cant get him back now.
Should I consider talking to him about getting back? Or is it better off without him... please leave answers..
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girl are you crazy you better go apologise right now and tell him you love him damn
ReplyYou should talk to him
ReplyYes, you should message him, but don’t get back together so quickly. This boy was messaging other girls, making you feel insecure. You two obviously are close, family friends and personal, so you should try to keep it positive between you two. Try working out being friends again, see if the feelings are still strong, then MAYBE think about it. Don’t forgive him so fast, don’t let your guilt affect you for being in the right. You did the right choice. Don’t beat yourself up about it.
ReplyWhy not met in person and talk?
ReplyI've seen this with some of my friends. So pretty much it sounds like he's guilt tripping you to get back together but you should leave him for a week or two so he can get back on his feet himself and then maybe ask to talk but definitely don't get back together if he's cheated on you and your sure he has. ( Also maybe to make yourself feel better hang out with some friends and have a girls night or something).
ReplyIt takes a real jerk to do something bad enough to make a woman leave him, but then turn it around on her so she feels guilty about it.
No, you are better off without him.
Replyyou shouldnt have broken up with him for something he did A month ago. you were kind of in the wrong here
ReplyTables are turned if you go back you lose guilt trip
If you do care for him as a person talk to his mom
Every kid gets mad when his or her hand is caught in the cookie jar.
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