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In February is going to be 3 years that I am in this relationship with this guy...
I love him, but I am not happy.
How can that be.
To be more specific here is a bit of story:
One month after I moved in with him I checked his computer (I know I shouldn’t but it was open and like there “use me”) and I saw some videos, pictures and screenshots that were very sexual, I saw the date and it was like long ago since we started dating, I got mad at him once and then during one week we didn’t talk , the videos of him having sex with another person were taken on the same week , I saw the date... I confront him right after he came to work , he texted this person for a few weeks after then I demand to block and delete it because it felt like I was a clown.. after that he said and I can believe that he didn’t meet anyone else for sex.
But he does still text in a sexual way with others and he was very open to me about that , he also says he wants 3some with other guys or gangbangs and stuff like that, I said I don’t like to share my guy but I did it twice with him, it was fun but I really didn’t need it, I was only there because of my bf.
During all this time he talks and text with others and have sexual conversations and he delete the so I can’t see because he don’t want I get angry... I talked to him about it and I said I don’t really like it, he says he can’t change it , he try but he can’t.
Actually he was getting better and I can see a change.
That’s not the worst, I like sex with him, he is very good in bed, but sadly we have like sex 1 day a month, I am 25 and he is 37.
But when I said something about 3some or sex with others he gets horny but don’t want with me.
He has been “cheating” on me over text with different guys, and doing FaceTime with guys and I feel he don’t respect me.. he says for him sex is not feelings involved and that’s why we don’t have a lot of sex because he loves me he don’t only want sex with me.
Anyway, I found other messages and he has been talking with his ex-boyfriend it seems he delete part of the messages because some things doesn’t match, still weird he talks to his ex..
and yes I do check his phone, because he says he don’t do it but he does.
We talked with a guy about having a sex-date, I been ready to have a 3some again but I don’t want talk too much with the guys, I only want to go , fun and go. But my bf talks and talk and likes to chat about life and stuff, then I found out they were having FaceTime or whatever while I was at work .. I can’t think what he did when I am out and he stays at home..
I looked the history on the phone and he looks porn, and like he is horny when I am not around but when I try to get honry on him then he has headache , he is hungry, he must sleep, he is tired, he must look something very important..
he explain why , but I mean, I am his bf and he is old enough to enjoy someone like me.
I am not bad looking and I am sure if I want have fun with others or get another boy I can do it easy but I don’t want, he on the other hand don’t look for another love he only look for sex with different guys and have fun but still having me as boyfriend at home.
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