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My boyfriend and I just decided to make it work and get back with each other. It has been a three month long breakup but at the end of it we both realized we still loved each other and we need to give it another try. During these three months, we still talked but we just caught with each other. We both became lonely and I started flirting with multiple guys and wanted to fuck around (I never actually fucked/hooked with anyone during the breakup) but I just never got the chance. We got back together yesterday, and he told me he asked out a girl but they never really ended up hanging out. So basically we both tried to find someone else or try to get our minds off of each other. However, for some reason it hurts me knowing he asked another girl out. Should it hurt me or should I move on because I did the same thing while broken up? I tried to move on and so did he.... so should I be mad or get over it? Is it something to be forgiven?
Also I just don't understand how he told me he missed me every single day and cried over me, but then asked out a girl. It doesn't make sense. Why did he do that? Did he not miss me? Or did he miss me but just wanted to forget about me and move on?
HELP.
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I understand why your thinking so much about this even though y]all are back together, but maybe he was really sad, and he did miss you and it was most likely hard for him and wanted it to go away so he tried to go out maybe get it of his mind off of you. But he couldn't and he really wanted you back, he couldn't even go out with other girls without thinking about you. So maybe this is the case but if your questioning this so much, do you really trust what he told you, maybe that's why your thinking about this so much. But don't take my word for it just giving some advice!
ReplyI think there are just some unknowns in life, and some things we must let go for our peace of mind. This may be one of them. If you weren't together, you weren't together. That is all there is to it. Perhaps you could give yourself a mantra ,"it does not matter" or something like that, to repeat to yourself every time such words come up in your head? I wish you peace!
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