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I’ve been in a relationship for 8 months now, things were brilliant at first... about 4 months in my boyfriend lost his job so we ended up spending a lot of time together but doing nothing, just sitting around day in day out... we just got on top of each other, he then decided he didn’t know if our relationship was, what he wanted... and we split up, my head told me to give up. But my heart told me to fight for us, so I did, I didn’t give up... we got back together but haven’t been spending as much time together. But some days I feel as though he still doesn’t want this relationship. Some days he will make an effort and message me first etc but others he can go all day without messgaging me... I don’t know if I’m taking it all the wrong way, I just don’t know what to do, do I carry on this hot and cold, not knowing if this is what he wants, or do I just end things??
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ReplyI think you should end things. I was also in this situation and my entire day was consumed by constantly checking my phone to see if he messaged. It stops you from getting on with things. Send him a long message explaining how you feel. His response will be the make or break of your relationship. You deserve better
ReplyDo not just end things without having a calm heart to heart with your partner. Express your feelings, let him express his. Not with arguments and fighting, but just letting each other know what you feel, and coming up with a sincere and agreed upon solution. You both need to know what the other one expects from the relationship, and if you do not match eachother's goals, then a break-up would be neccesary, altough it may surprise you that you both want the same, and just don't know how to get to it, or how to treat each other.
ReplyI read somewhere that for a male losing a job can be as traumatic as the death of a loved one. Some males are raised to believe their primary function is to provide, the loss of this ability hit the core of their 'manhood'.. they serve no useful purpose (interior monologue). Give it some research and see if the show fits.
Replythink about yourself and how you feel
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