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Why do my sister really hate me so much? She's into mind games and fake. She may appear to be helping and caring but deep inside wishing me to suffer more. I see it through her body language, certain actions and circumstances we faced, I'm not dumb. I really hate her. Always hating me for our parents' failure's to her. She's always playing the victim whenever I confront her about it. Ugh. I'm tired to be her sister. Why do I need to suffer because of someone's fault?! Ugh. She's not helping with my depression. I'm beginning to give up, instead I get to refresh and rest my mind, here I am being tortured. Is she really doing it on purpose?! She's pushing me beyond. I'm tired.
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I see that you're in pain by the way your sister treats you but there like any other problems, there's always a solution. I suggest you calmly go to her and ask her to talk in private. Between brother and sister relationships, the parents can't help much, trust me. My guess is that your sister has some issues with herself and doesn't or can't talk about it, because she doesn't get noticed enough to beging talking about it. Here's a scenario of suggestion. Knock on her door and ask to come in, ask her if you can speak to her for a minute and tell her to sit on the bed. You sit with her. Looking in to her eyes, not looking down you're not there to shout at her or start a fight, say:
" Recently i've noticed that you are very aggresive towards me and i don't like it at all. Is there something that troubles you because your actions to me are very unpleseant and cruel. We are family, and we shouldn't be this way. I'm guesssing you have a problem that makes you angry or scared and you act out this way because it affects you a lot. Was it something that i did? Was it something that someone else did? I'm here to solve this and i know you're smart enought to put aside this agressiveness for just a minute. I'm not well myself but i want to get better and your actions are not helping me but i would like to change that."
If this scenario is out of this world for you to do, at least talk to her. NOT agressively, that's not gonna help. Even if she shouts and screams at you, you always be calm and clearminded.
Talking is Key
I hope i helped somehow...
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