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My bf just told me he kisses his aunt who's old sometimes on the lips when saying goodbye... is that weird?
5 years ago · 5 · Stress, +5
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Im concerned. Is that weird?
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Personally for me, it's weird. But if that concerns you and you want it to stop, you should talk to your boyfriend about it, probably even his Aunt. Gather up, take a deep breath and speak to them about it.
Talking to your boyfriend privately about it, is an option as well, since his your partner you should always let him know what bothers you.
So, that's my best advice for you. I'm sure he'll understand :)
ReplyIt's very weird. It's abnormal. What if one of them has the Herpes virus/cold sores. You're only supposed to kiss someone on the lips if you are an adult, in a intimate sexual relationship with and it's consensual. That's all you need to know. Anything else is wrong. He and she obviously doesn't know about normal boundaries.
ReplyYes...thats weird, but if its a family thing and thats how he was raised. You cant help it i guess.
ReplyOne persons wierd is another persons normal. Its only wierd if you associate a singel kiss as something sexual. As long as they see it as non sexual it isnt. I wouldent do it personally, but maybe it started when he was a little kid and it just became their way to say hi? Guys didnt hug each other a couple of years ago, at least not in my country. It was considered really wierd and I think they were afraid that it would be percieved as gay. Now its the norm. Yeah its a bit unusual, but as I said before, if they dont see it as sexual at all, it isnt. Try telling him that it makes you umcomforteble, if nothing else hell at least has to reflect over it.
ReplyNo! lol
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