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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 months now and neither of us has said 'I love you ' yet. Our communication pattern is slightly weird as he is a really busy person because he would send me a couple of messages in the morning and I would reply then he would reply to me 5 or 6 hours later. Lately, he just seems like he has lost interest in me. The only time we actually get to talk is at night times and sometimes its really late so neither of us is bothered to call each other. We don't call every night but most nights. A couple of days ago I said to him I missed him but I never got the same affection back. I don't know if I am overcomplicating things or just being clingy or paranoid. I sent him a text message today saying that ' i wanna know if you're fully committed in this relationship because it's like he just doesn't have time for me anymore and as much as i want this to work it is really hard because I've been missing him so much lately.' I don't know if i should've said this because it makes me sound desperate but i really do like him, maybe love him and genuinely i really want it to work. What do I do? Have I done the wrong thing by sending him that text message and complicating things?
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you done nothing wrong, from hat I can tell you are jut trying to be passionate and caring but if he can't see that then he is blind
Replyi am genuinely worried about this ...
ReplyFirst, you have to understand it's extremely hard to find true love. If he has lost interest after 2 months... then it's not it. I came to this conclusion after reading the first four lines... but even then I can't fully help you...
Understand that you are the best counsler for yourself, since you know all the facts.
Be real with yourself... do you want these cat and mouse games? or do you want to be decisive and mature?
Again, you know best... no one can give you the best advice but yourself...
I feel compassion and understanding for you... I wish you happiness and peace.
Replythank you so much x
Replyif anything you're underthinking, you should be thinking more
ReplyTo start with , you should know that love is not easy , life is not easy . Building a relationship and maintaining it is hard work , but it is worth specially if you truly love the person . Not only so , it is well known among people that the first few months of a relationship are kind of the "confused months ". However if you really want your relationship to work you should primarily remove all the panic and negative thoughts ,and when you do that you can move to the second step which is basically communication . I know that your boyfriend is busy , but you should text him saying " listen I know you are busy but there is something I would like you to know about " or " there is something I d really love to discuss with you " . Important note : NEVER EVER SAY TO YOUR BOYFRIEND "WE NEED TO TALK " because no man likes that sentence trust me . Then when you guys get to actually communicate , you have to open up to him , explain to him how much you love him , tell him that you miss him so much , let him know that you understand that he is busy , tell him that as any person on planet earth you feel special when he says "I love you " or when he says " I miss you ". In other words , be simple , be clear , express your concerns in a gentle way , but with full honesty . After you do that , just wait and listen carefully to his reply and try to understand what he is saying to you and then start forming a clear idea of the reality. I really hope everything works out between you guys and you will be a happy couple ;)
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