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My ex fiancé who I share a young son with who still lives with me is so verbally and emotionally abusive. We have been together for 8 years. He left me before and then cried to come back and now he hates me. He says I’ve been a burden and have nothing to offer him. I’ve gotten one degree and a career since being with him and am back in school for another and he said he doesn’t care about my school. He said he doesn’t like me or care about me. He said my daughters dad left me because he knew I was crazy too. He is making me feel worthless and like no one will ever love me. It hurts. I just wanted a family better than the one I grew up in. I’m very reserved and sensitive so all the things he says they hurt deep. It gets unbearable sometimes to have someone hate u so much but he won’t leave. And if he leaves he wants to take our son and wants me out of the way. He is too immature to even co parent. I fee stuck. I have no one to talk to. I’m so embarrassed to not be engaged anymore. No one even knows we aren’t engaged anymore. I feel like I’ve failed at life
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You have not failed. This is not your fault. You should seek out a women's and/or family shelter near you for advice and help in dealing with this situation and removing your ex fiance. You do not have to feel embarrassed, I know that may not be much consolation but you do not have to feel that way. It is common to feel that way however. Please seek out help from a group/ organization designed to help women in this situation. Stay strong.
ReplyThank you so much for listening and responding
Replyi feel you to , actually its good to get out from toxic relationship . toxic relationship is the only one that broke you . you need time to heal slowly but surely . i pray for you to get e better love and life with your daughter and you lover one that will love you no matter what .
ReplyYou haven't failed at all. Your love and desire to make a better life for your child is exactly what a mother should do. This story of toxic male behaviour is all too common. There are organisations out there to help women, and I encourage you to get help. Remember that you can best support your child when you are in a good position yourself and it sounds a through this man is not going to help you in your journey to be happy. You are clearly a determined person who is educating herself and seeking a better life. I wish you the best of luck on your journey because you deserve happiness.
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