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I am a mother of 7 months old baby, got married 2 yrs back with the hectic life of job i thought to take leave and i left the job just to enjoy life for few days. After 1 yr of marriage i got conceived, my husband was not happy everyday we had arguments about why i left the job? After 5 to 6 months it got smoothed. But somewhere it hit me very hard , i had the pressure of doing job again after delivery because he was the only earner. After 5 months of my baby i started work from home, it was too tough to manage both baby and work somehow i managed for 2 months and lastly i left the job as unable to look after my baby.
Now what i want to share is i had very different life before marriage, money wasn't a big deal for me. My way of living was totally different in the way i am living now. I haven't bought any new clothes since so long, it was year or more when i been to parlor to pamper myself. My partner wants me to be slim , beautiful but he forgot the real of ME. I know for my dream it is only me who needs to hard work else my dream will be my dream.
There are lots of women who are handling both career n baby, but why i am unable to do.
How i can motivate myself. I am unable to sleep since last few days.
I shouldn't but i regret somewhere for my marriage . There are lot more things but i dnt know where it is now i am out of words.
I want me back i want my kind of life back
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You’re being too hard on yourself!! Being a new mom is exhausting! Have you looked into jobs that offer onsite childcare? I’ve worked as a nanny in the past just being a mother’s helper so mom could concentrate on work. Take breaks for you as well! It doesn’t have to be something fancy to make you feel good and lift your spirits. Try a relaxing bath and some music. You will find yourself falling into your own new routine before you know it. But please don’t feel like you are somehow missing the secret to it all... because the big secret is that we are all doing our best in the end and it’s okay to need that extra pair of hands sometimes. If you can’t hire a mother’s helper try swapping babysitting time with another mom.
ReplyIt is completely normal for a person to have regrets about their life, or even their marriage but now you have to find a way to get it the way you want it to be. You need to show your husband the real you again if he has lost sight of who you both were in the past. Remind him of why he fell in love with you. I have no children so i can't understand the amount of pressure and stress a baby can have on a woman. You need to decide for yourself if you want to be a stay at home mom or be a working mother. I know it can probably be very difficult with what you are going through but can you say you regret having your baby and regret getting married to your husband. If you can then that's understandable. However if you cant then you must push through. It is only the beginning you have a lot further to go so be strong, have your head up high, and tell yourself you got this. Because you do.
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