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So, I have had a stupid thing for this guy for almost 5 years now. He has had a girlfriend for about 4. She's sweet and they are really good together (I ship them :]). I gave him some advice during a fight he was having with her. Then, today, we were talking (we have a class together so it's inevitable) and he said that they are better now. Right after that, he said they broke up. I knew he was lying and I called him out on it. It took me saying I didn't believe him three times until he gave in and said it was a joke. I guess my question is, WHY would he joke about that or say it at all? His girlfriend is amazing, they're still together, and I haven't said or done anything to indicate my stupid feelings for him.
I know some of you will have opinions about me saying all of this, i am just a romantically inexperienced person who likes to be alone so i don't know much. Anything helps :]
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Aww that is sweet. If he is young, chances are he will want to try new relationships. Maybe there is hope that you might have a chance with this guy. It is probably best that you be his friend first and wait and see because that goes a long way and it is respectful.
ReplyWe've been friends for a while (Which hasn't helped slow my feelings whatsoever), and he is a sweet guy. Thank you :]
ReplyRemember that you might crush on someone else one day and it's good to be open too in case someone who isn't taken catches your eye.
ReplyTo be honest, openness is not my strong suit. Like i said, being alone is kinda my thing. But you're right. It would be nice to like someone else for a change. I hope that day comes. Thank you :]
Replytalk to him and tell him how you feel
ReplyThank you :] I have considered this, but I don't want to ruin anything. He is in a great relationship and is one of my closest friends. Besides, I like to see him happy. His girlfriend makes him that way. I don't need to cause drama over my petty crush.
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