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I have Asperger’s syndrome, and to make it worse I had a traumatic childhood that left me scarred. Anyway, I made a friend. Before him I had no one. I usually text them to keep in touch and they know about my mental problems. But my head is filled with doubt.
We used to send a message every day or two. But now they almost never reply, once they took over a month. They don’t ask me questions, or even take the initiative to contact me. I’m worried that they’ve lost interest, or that they have some secret agenda or want to hurt me. They call me a friend, and they say nice things like “I hope everything turns out fine for you”. I don’t understand. I don’t know what to do.
Are they abandoning me? Am I not being a good friend? Do they even like me? What am I doing wrong? I guess I just don’t try hard enough.
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You a guy with Asperger's syndrome? If anything maybe you should take initiative to contact them instead by calling them.
Replyhey..I am also a person suffering from asperger's... I also have similar experience where i find myself in a place where i find that no one values me....No one would talk or send a message to me unless i start it...and even if i try to start the conversation they would just give me these mmhhmmm and oohhh and woow.....and sometimes...thy would just walk away.... its just that ppl r always like this...they tend to be supportive after knowing your problem but deep inside i dont think they care about us at all..... and its really bad...because of all these....i coudnt find any meaning social media so i deactivated most of my accounts and went to the people who actually like me...my brothers and parents....well i would give you the same advice ... turn to ur loved ones... because i went behind the approval of my friends and failed.... now i am working on myself to get to a position where they cant ignore me anymore....but i dont know anything since i still have a lot to achieve....as i am just 19 years old!! and it would be really nice if i could talk to you (without knowing each other's identity) because i find us similar!!
ReplyI hear you. The real question is, are you showing affection and support for other people? Or are you just waiting for them to take care of your needs?
Replyi used support anyone who is worthy and now after realizing what people are like....i dont actually care about them...and i dont want them talking care of my needs....what i actually want is their need for me for taking care of their needs!!
Replythey probably think the same about you
Replylet them think... i have no problem about it!! i cant force them to think the way i want them to.... people can never care about nobody .... u , me everyone...its how humans r... so deep inside everyone cares about what others r doing or thinking...that's y people r always keen to know about others... y do u think gossips and rumors are so common..?!
ReplyWhy would he want to hurt you?
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