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My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months or so now, he's going to be going off to University 3 hours away from me, he's still best friends with his ex girlfriend and he often brings her up whenever we're having sex or about to, this really bothers me and he always reassures me there's no reason for me to worry about who he's thinking because he has me and who else would he ever want in that moment blah blah, but then, he says that when he goes off to uni one weekend is going to be with me and the other with her, she'd be sleeping in his bed and I hate hate hate that idea. Is this wrong of me?
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That sounds completely unreasonable and disrespectful of the relationship you two have. I personally would not put up with that. Great if they can remain friends but sharing a bed an time like that he might as well be dating both of you. You are not wrong with feeling uncomfortable about that at all.
ReplyAre you serious? I don't think you should be in a relationship with him if he thinks having an ex-girlfriend in his bed is acceptable. Do you even know what a normal relationship is? You're in for a lot of hearbreak and trouble if you stay with him. Why are you messing up your young life? Get a normal boyfriend if you have to have a relationship. He is most definitely not normal. He's not as committed to you as you are to him. I wish women would stop allowing men to treat them like shit. Your relationship is not supposed to involve other people. You've got to see this as a red flag.
ReplyLeave him.
Replythis is totally right of you.confront him and tell him that u don't agree with him, cuz he's being a jerk. meeting his best friend is fine but sharing the same bed isn't, that too every week.
ReplyOkay, he's not being honest it sounds like. Do not let him make you feel crazy or stupid for thinking for yourself. Try talking to his "best friend" and see if you can figure anything out. This doesn't sound right at all though, and if I were you I would save yourself the heartbreak
ReplyI've been there. He always brought up his ex. Im telling you girl to girl that he is gonna break ur heart into two! LEAVE HIM
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