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Ive been single for almost 4 years now and Im convinced that Im not meant to find someone to be with. I've tried I think everything under the sun from dating sites, random meet ups in things im interested in and not interested in, spending time with coworkers, going to a bar or club all the social things...or just not putting myself out there at all. I tried that for a year on purpose not actively seeking to speak with anyone just doing what I normally do everyday. And now reflecting from it Im not sure what to do...if there is anything I can do. I know theres nothing wrong with me, but I cant help but to feel there is. Sometimes I wish I could just ask those individuals who I did have the courage to tell them how I was feeling and ask them on a date why they werent interested in giving me a chance or what was it that deemed them me not their type. So I could learn from those instances and make wiser decisions...im not sure
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I went on so many dates, so many failed dates. So many conversations where the girl wouldn't message back, where my interest and politeness was brushed away. It can be crushing. Being single is crushing, if you have love to give. I promise you, as some random commentor , that if you have love to give then there are people to accept it, people who welcome it. It takes so long sometimes to find that person, but please just be who you want yourself to be. Don't use other people as a validator, being with someone is so beautiful and lovely that it can be hard to be loving and cheerful without a significant other. You can be, you can at least be that way until you find that person. I promise you, you deserve love, and someone deserves your love. Go out every day and be you, the entire you, the you that enjoys what they enjoy without anxiety or hesitation. That person will find you, if you love yourself you always find that person. Anyone who read this would feel the same.
ReplyThats a tough one. I would set new goals, like create a collage or picture book, or knitting. Just focus on something else.
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