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Hi.
In the middle of 2018 my parents split..
I didn't know how to feel and everything was fine for about a week or 2.
After a week or 2, my dad says he found out my mum was cheating on him.
Mum got kicked out of home.
When she moved out it was really weird at her house. I didn't have my dad there.
My sister also permanently lived with my dad, believing my mum had lied to her many times.
So at Mum's I didn't have my dad or sister.. only me, my brother and my mum.
Not very long after this mum and dad found new boyfriends and girlfriends and well, my dad spent most of his time with her. She stayed over a lot and it was so uncomfortable.
I see a counsellor at school and I have online friends I talk to but I've never discussed how I really feel.
Just a few days ago my sister moved out from my dads house and is now living with her friend. (she is 20 yrs old)
Mum has been low on money so she moved in with her boyfriend. And oh my gosh is it weird. I am typing this at my mum's house and its just so uncomfortable to be living with a new person.. Im starting to be in my room as much as possible, on my laptop and if Im not most likely in a shitty mood
school is.. Im not even sure. Yeah, my friends are nice but the feeling to get out of bed at 7:00 in the morning to go and be around people for 8 hours of my day.. is not the thing I want to wake up to. I haven't been at school at all this week, and that's because my dad might steal me, never give me back to mum. and Im so confused and feel so weird right now.. like Ive been living with another guy other than my dad for about 2 weeks now and I don't think I can do it for much longer. But saying that I don't want to deal with my dad right now. What the hell do I do?! I just want to get out of this drama but when I think its being resolved something else happens.
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Mmm, firstly I want to say I'm sorry that you're going through so much. It can get incredibly overwhelming, especially for someone your age. I can't really tell you a sure fire way on what to do in your situation because I'm not in your shoes...but I think it would help if you could find someone in your family - your sister maybe - someone who is willing to listen to you and just talk about how all this family drama is affecting you.
I'd like to think talking to either your dad or mom would be helpful in this respect but they're probably too busy thinking about themselves at the moment. Still though, if it's possible, try talking to your dad or mom cause maybe they might just not realise how their problems/drama etc. are affecting their own kids. If you let them know how you feel, maybe they can try to do better and not make you feel worse.
Also, it's going to be hard but know that these things will pass. And it's okay to feel confused about everything that's going on, you just need to talk to your family so you can slowly clear your head.
ReplyYeah, talking to someone like my parents or sister would most likely help. Just personally it’s pretty hard to open up considering when I try I don’t have the words to explain myself. Though I’d say my Sister would be the best one to talk to.
ReplyHmm, then maybe you could try putting down how you're feeling into words? Just list them down in a book and look through them. You may be able to sort through them better that way and it helps with finding the words whenever you want to explain how you feel.
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