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How is love measured?
Is it as simple as a feeling?
How is a feeling Known?
Is it as simple as just knowing?
If I know, who's to say that knowledge, that feeling, is true? That it's not a simple hypochondriac reaction to how I think I should be feeling?
If I want to love someone, will it just happen?
How can I truly be sure that I love them and that its not just a culmination of the realisation that I should not have let them go?
Am I suffering from grief of letting them get away from me? Or am I truly, madly, irretrievably in love with this person?
Who's to say I even comprehend the emotional implications of love at this age. Who's to say anyone will even look at this, let alone reply.
Alas, simply writing this seems to be helping. I guess that's a plus. For now
-Myles
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No one can know what you are feeling but you. Just like happiness or anger, love is just a feeling though. It comes and goes the same.
ReplyYou write more eloquently than most here, it's refreshing!
I've been struggling with similar thoughts. Lost love or lost lust? Remembering, it feels so intense, so real.. Like no time has passed at all.
A man I haven't seen in years.. A boy, really. But such strong presence. He always looked so good in red. The jut of his lower lip & the large chunk taken from his smile. The way he'd send blood rushing to my cheeks.
But do I only remember because he's with another? Because I regret not having won him for myself? I find myself feeling jealous that she has him - that she has a comfort level; familiarity with him. Something I only ever dreamt of.
I set a boundary with him, hoping secretly he'd push it til it broke down. He didn't, and I don't know why I did that.
If he approached me today- my cheeks would still burn, my words would still slur.
I suppose there's no way of knowing, until we do.
ReplyNot knowing ...is the excitement when you finally do know...and if we did know then life would be boring. Don't you think?
~Ailee
Replyloving a person takes time & much knowledge on said person. Everybodys got their boundries & their limits for what they find attractive in a person. Yell me, Did this person meet your standards?
ReplyHe was perfect, in all definitions of the word. I was never good enough, barely adequate. I left because i couldn't convey my emotions to him. I feared i was going insane. I left from my own insecurities.
ReplyHow about just building up your relationship? start with trying to be friends & see were it goes
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