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Hey!
I'm a girl, who is suffering quite a bit :( Not as much as some ,but I do need help. My first problem is very long.
I have been friends with someone (lets call them, M) for a long time - 11 years to be exact. However a few months ago another girl (lets call her P) has been hanging round with her. I get that people move on, but P has been telling M that I'm a horrible person. It really hurts, because me and P used to be good friends last year, and she turned her back on me. She also does really mean things to other people and makes nasty comments on her social media people about me and my friends. She always walks into classes like she owns the place! People think she's cool, but she's vile! No one understands! She also puts a fake face on in front of my friends (she acts all kind and funny) to take them away from me, and I'm feeling like I'm loosing more friends by the second :( I thought I was going to be friends with M again as P was going to a different school to M. But no, she changed school last week, which makes me really depressed. I have told so many teachers, but they don't do anything! Especially our main teacher who favourites P! Also P copies everything I do and claims she has done it first like on snap chat, she copied my profile pic, deliberately and she claims she has had it like that since ages ago!
My second problem is myself! I feel so insecure and worried about my body that, I have once self-harmed myself, not badly though. My ears are massive (not like Dumbo, but their quite big), my neck is sort of long. But my main problem is my teeth!
I get bullied because of my teeth, I get called a Rabbit because my front 2 stick out a bit. Luckily, I am getting braces soon, but I'm quite worried about that! I have to have 4 teeth removed and I'm really scared. Does it hurt? Will I cry? Will it go wrong?
I'm really worried!
If you have any advice please, please, please, comment below! I need some help <3
XOXO
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Hi! First, I'm sorry that you're not happy at school and that P is not making it any easier for you. If she's bullying you online, you're saying she's been posting negative comments about you and your friends, then you need to tell an adult. If your teacher isn't listening, you need to tell someone else, like your parents for example. Second, you don't need to feel insecure about how you look. If someone judges you based on your looks, then they are not worth your time. Don't worry about getting your teeth removed for braces. I had to remove 4 of them as well when I was ten for braces. Don't be scared, it won't hurt and it can never go wrong, it's a fairly simple procedure. Don't worry about it, your teeth will look perfect by the time you're done with your braces. I wish you best of luck :)
ReplyTbh, P sounds kind of immature. I'm sorry that she's doing this to you but one day she will realize that she hurt somebody truly special. Also, if people bully you, then they are probably just insecure about how they look or act. That's humans for ya. They're just too selfish to admit they have a problem. When someone bullies you again, just think in your head that they are just scared of the flaws they will find in themself and they don't fully understand that those flaws are what make them unique. Don't take their comments to heart, it's just another phase of life and they're trying to control it with meanness. Live on, you got this.
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