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Pretty much all my friends are in some sort of relationship. I'm almost 15 and have never dated. It's not like I'm ugly, I'm pretty good looking ( if I do say so myself 😉) . I'm a quiet person, except for in my band class, and people have tried to date me but I either didn't feel the same about them or i just wasn't ready.
I feel like I am ready now, but it seems like all the people who liked me before, now like other people. And all the people I like someone else.
A little while back, actually, the one person I was really into was into one of my closest friends. It absolutely crushed me 😩 .
I don't know, maybe I'm not approachable because I'm so quiet, but I do hate being quiet and I've tried to get out of my shell but I just cant , believe me iv e tried.
There is one person who shows interest in me but I don't know, he sits across from me in class so we are facing each other and I always catch him staring at me and look ing at me when he tells jokes, he might just be a flirt though.
I 'm not sure.
Life i s too complicated
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I do not think that is the case. I think maybe sometimes people find you less approachable because as you stated above, you are good looking and maybe they feel like they are not good enough for you. I reckon you should wait it out and you will meet someone eventually who is good enough for you or is willing to become good enough for you. Myself, I am 21 this year and still single. Made too many mistakes to just jump head into the first guy now
ReplyJust because your friends are dating doesn't mean you have to. Personally, I think high school guys are pretty immature in general; and if you don't feel mature or ready for a relationship, don't do it. You'll end up having more regrets than if you'd gone in unsteady on your feet. (I personally don't think I'm ready for a relationship and I'm a year older than you).
If you're looking for a long-lasting relationship, don't look at the guy sitting across from you. It sounds like you barely know him. The best relationships are the ones where you know the person well and vice versa. Where you're friends, almost best friends, somebody you're well accustomed to being around.
Best of luck,
girlonfire
ReplyNot true. Friends are friends and love interest are love interests.
ReplyIf you're not friends with the person, how can you expect to be in a relationship with them? Friends like each other. And in order to learn to love somebody, truly love them, you need to like them first. Thus, friends before love interests. You can be dating and be friends, but people don't date strangers seriously.
ReplyOne thing I advise you the most is do not feel pressured to date anyone! I know that all of your friends being in relationships may want you to be in one but being in a relationship takes a lot of dedication and commitment. There are many fish in the sea and since you are only in high school many of the boys arent worth it but if you really want a boyfriend then I advise you to put yourself out there more!
ReplySweetheart, to be perfectly honest, you and your friends are a bit young for dating. It really is better to wait. I am not trying to tell you how long or how you should live, but there is no rush. Falling in love should occur naturally. Anyone dating under the age of eighteen should be extremely careful. It is all too easy to fall into trouble. Trouble does not always mean STDs or drugs either. Everyone's experience is different, but you will find that, more often than not, most people do not find "the one" until years later in their lives- after making multiple mistakes. But that isn't to make you afraid, because mistakes are one of the ways we learn. It might be best to discuss your feelings with your parent(s) if at all possible, or another trusted adult.
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