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My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year, we have our own place together and I really do see a future with her.
She has recently started messaging a man who wants to be her sugar daddy, I’m not comfortable with her doing it. Should I be okay with it for money purposes?? She said she doesn’t want to leave me and it is just for money, but I’m not happy about her sitting next to me in bed and messaging a guy, I feel like all the effort that takes should be directed on me and not getting money by talking to a man..
I’m already feeling really low at the moment, and I’ve expressed this to her, she knows I over think. I feel like I’m not enough for her anymore, and she will get bored soon and just leave because she wants someone with more money and someone who is more attractive.
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I think you're right her attention and focus should be on you if you don't feel comfortable with it she should stop she would if she loved you
ReplyShe has stopped now, which is good. I'm just a very anxious person, so things like this really hit my confidence.
ReplyIf you dont feel right just let her go.
I, as a girl, would never give attention to someone else more than my man. Except for when i wouldnt love him.
ReplyUnless he told you how he felt you would not know. If he cannot talk to you and tell you what he feels or needs well that falls on him now doesn't it? Besides maybe he has no clue or care for what she has been or is going through. Money? No you should never be ok with that! I would rather have love anyday over money. Love makes you a millionaire.... just a song I heard. The one thing I have lived without is love, but it can be just as elusive as money sometimes. I would not want that for anyone because that is sad. Really sad. I would not want that for anyone. You would have to fake interest, fake caring, and fake you. No thanks! I could not just fake it. I am comfortable enough with myself that I am not clingy, but clingy is insecure. I am not my man, but I am myself. If you are just living for and being there for your guy or girl well you really need to get a self.
This is why I struggled to get my head around it because even if it is for financial gain, I would never talk to anyone that isn't her.
Replywhy would you want to even stay with someone who would sell themself short just for some loose change?
ReplyIf she is supposed to be with you and yet messaging "sugar daddies" she is not a quality woman. Leave now before she hurts you even more.
ReplyWhy good people always meet with wrong people!!!!! Sometimes even we are knowing it is hell, we are willing to fall down...same feelings here. I think I am not enough for him even though he always said he loves me he loves me.but he hurt me.
ReplyUPDATE:
I have spoken to her about the fact I felt uncomfortable with her doing this, she messaged him and told him that I was uncomfortable with it and she had to stop talking to him, and I asked her to block him, but she hasn't yet.. watch the space. She said sorry a lot though which is a good thing I think?
Thank you for all your comments it's really opened my eyes, and I'll keep an eye out.
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