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Married 19 yrs; He asked me to lose weight
6 months ago · · I need advice,
I have spent half a lifetime with him. He has serious behavioral health problems he’s working on, but last night he asked me to lose weight.
I know I could be healthier - In taking care of him, I lost sight of my own needs. It was heartbreaking to hear though.
I have tried to help, love and support him. I don’t think he realizes how much it has taken a toll on my own mental health. Its overwhelming at times. I have been thinking of leaving him. I don’t know what to do.