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so im about to turn 16, and ive never had a bf (im a girl)
i havent had my first kiss. all my friends are getting boyfriends and having sex, and i havent had anything.
whats wrong with me? i know im not ugly, ive had plenty of people like me, just never dated me. why is that?
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I’m 18 and I haven’t experienced any of these things either, take your time, nothing is wrong with you, you don’t need to grow up that quickly and you will eventually meet someone.
ReplyI'm way older than you and I haven't experience any of that as well lol so if you're thinking there's something wrong with you, let go of that idea because there isn't. Peer pressure is normal especially for adolescents like you and you just need to handle that very well. Why don't you just enjoy your youth and prioritize other important things like studies and improving oneself? Love can surely wait and it will always come to you at the right time with the right person. You just need to wait for it. 😃
ReplyPlease know there is nothing wrong with you at all. I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 20. It will happen in time so please try your best not to get too stressed over it.
Replyare you happy that you waited? Like do you regret not just doing it?
Replyyou're not even that old ♥ so don't stress it. im sure it will happen eventually for you, with someone who will mean something to you
ReplyThere’s nothing wrong with you, because there’s nothing wrong with doing any of those things later in life. Society just impressed on you that you should’ve done it already when we’re all just individuals
ReplyDude. If your friends are having sex or had sex before turning sixteen, then something is wrong with them, not you. I don't even know why the hell kids can date before fifteen or sixteen, much less why anyone would leave them to have relations with each other as minors.
ReplyI'm 23.. Still I'm single 😂😂I'm enjoying.. And waiting for special one.. 😜😜😜
Replydont rush into anything. im sixteen and ive experienced allof these things and i regret all of it so so much. we're supposed to be kids, we need to experience our childhood, the world isnt going anywhere. it washere long before you and i were born and it will be here long after. dont compare your time to others. keep yourself. stay true to yourself. do it for those of us who dont have that choice anymore x
Replythere is nothing wrong with you. just be patient! sometimes doing things just because your friends are doing it isn't a good reason to do things. I had sex way to early and regretted it so much so please wait until your with someone you care about and make sure your ready
ReplyTotally nothing wrong. I was 18 when I got my first real boyfriend. I was really shy and was afraid to kiss him. We didn’t kiss until the third date. I was like you. Everyone I knew was having sex and such and I didn’t even have a boyfriend. In the end I was happy I waited. It was so worth it in the end. Most of your friends who are in relationships will break up by the time college rolls around. :)
ReplyI am 20. I never had a boyfriend. I am glad you know that you're not ugly. Although, I am a little bit sad that you didn't say you were beautiful. Cause I believe you are. You're just as beautiful as all human beings. why? because YOU are a human being who matters!
I've been asking myself the same question "what's wrong with me?". I felt bad for not having the same "pace" as my friends when I am absolutely not supposed to be like anyone else. But there is something more important that I want you to remember. Your friends' relationships are not necessarily how you think they are. Many of your friends would have been happier if they were single. They're just not brave enough to look for their happiness within themselves and not revolve it around someone else. You're not supposed to be dating or have your first kiss at 16, nor at 60, you're not supposed to date at all if you don't want to.
It's hard to believe when you feel that YOU yourself want to date. What I would advise you is to focus on yourself for now. This might not be something you want to hear. But try it first, give yourself 3 months when the focus is only YOU, your goals, the person you wanna become, and YOUR happiness. 3 months sounds too long? Try it for 2 days then, do it truthully and honestly, and see for yourself if you wanna give it a try or not.
ReplyI am telling you this because after working on myself for 4 months now ( seeing a counselor, challenging myself everyday, feeling helpless, loveless, unhappy, and actually coming to the point where I love myself more than I did before), I've been asked for the FIRST time to be someone's girlfriend. Only to realize that I wasn't ready yet although I belieeved until this moment that I WANT to be in a relationship. Love yourself more and be the CENTER of your life.
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