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im almost 16, and im a female. ive never masturbated. idek what being turned on feels like. when i was younger, my parents think that i was sexually assaulted by my babysitter, but they dont know for sure. i dont remember at all. i just dont feel pleasure when i try, it just feels awkward. ive tried like everything to get in the mood. mentally, i want to do it really bad. i really want to feel the pleasure. but physically i cant. it makes me feel broken. im scared that when i try to have sex when im older i wont like it. i want to like it though. am i broken? how do i fix myself? whats wrong with me?
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Trust me, Nothings wrong with you. It is normal not to understand what works for you. It will be alright irrespective of whether you know how to do it or not.
ReplyDo you find other people attractive? if you do, try thinking about the most attractive one. Imagine that they’re doing or saying the things you find attractive, and pay attention to how it feels to think those thoughts.
Replyive tried, and there's been sooo many guys that should turn me on, and mentally im enjoying it but i cant seem to make my body catch up to my thoughts
ReplyIs it possible that you are asexual? Or maybe aromantic as well? Sex is not a necessity and you are NOT broken! You don't need to have sexual feelings to have a perfect relationship, if you even want a relationship. Good luck with this part of your life, I've been through it too and still am. :S Lots of love 💕
Replyi dont wanna be asexual though. i wanna be able to have and enjoy sex ughhhh this sucks
ReplyGive yourself time. There's no hurry. Many girls find that their body doesn't catch up to their thoughts for quite a while.
ReplyNothing's wrong with you. You're just different. Even if you don't feel pleasure when you have sex with your future partner, you would still please him, and even maybe have some children while you're at it(if you don't have protection like a condom)!
ReplyIm 15 too and I know the stress you are feeling about having sex growing older but you need to relax and just take it slow, you might not be feeling any pleasure because you're trying too hard to.
ReplyThat def could be it, ty!!
ReplyBro you’re 16 it’s cool, I’ve never done anything aswell you’re young
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