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I broke up with my girlfriend yesterday, and now she's guilt trpipping me.
4 years ago · 6 · Need Advice, +1
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I broke up with her yesterday bc my parents are homophobic. My mother was about to send me to asia for an international boarding school.
I decided it was better to break up with her, since I feel that family is more important. Should I feel guilty or should I not? Please comment.
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I don't know.
From your family's perspective: Yes, its very sweet and thoughtful of you to do that. But do they understand?
From that girls perspective: Yes, you should feel guilty. Because you left her.
I think you should try reasoning with your family about her and you. And what makes you happy. If they really love you, they will make peace with whatever you want. At least try one more time. She deserves one more chance right?
ReplyI tried. My mom was on an international airline's website about to send me to South Korea for education since I am "Focusing on girls instead of school"
ReplyHonestly, people should impose their beliefs on anyone. Not even their children. You have your own mind. You don't need to base your life on theirs. If you wanted to break up with her, that is your choice. Guilty is a feeling. You either feel it or you don't. I don't know how long you were together but if she is feeling bad about the break up then it would hurt her more if you got to leave without feeling anything. I suggest not rushing into new relationships until you are sure you can be with someone to avoid hurting yourself or them.
ReplyHonestly, people should impose their beliefs on anyone. Not even their children. You have your own mind. You don't need to base your life on theirs. If you wanted to break up with her, that is your choice. Guilty is a feeling. You either feel it or you don't. I don't know how long you were together but if she is feeling bad about the break up then it would hurt her more if you got to leave without feeling anything. I suggest not rushing into new relationships until you are sure you can be with someone to avoid hurting yourself or them.
ReplyWait til your 18 and finally be you.
ReplyOkay then.. ?
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