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My best friend suddenly started giving me the cold shoulder about two weeks ago. I don't know what I did to upset her; I don't think I said or did anything that would make her stop talking to me, but she doesn't talk to me anymore. I've been trying, but she insists that she's fine, just "mentally preoccupied", but she won't tell me what it's about. I'm worried because she's never done this before and her family has a long line of depression, so she's likely to get it as well, and I'm scared that this is the problem.
But I'm upset because now I don't have anyone to talk to. I have another friend but she's two years older than me and I feel like a burden for her because she has so many other people that she'd rather hang out with than me. I'm annoying her, I get that vibe and I don't want to push anything and lose our friendship that I've worked so hard on.
These are the only two people that I talk to on the daily, but I don't feel like I can talk to them anymore. I feel so lost and confused, because I want to tell someone about this argument that I had with my dad and the "date" that I had on Friday night with my crush, but the only two people I talk to don't want to talk to me. I want someone to come over and give me a long hug and stay with me while I talk and probably cry, because god knows when the last time I got a hug from someone that I wanted to give me a hug. I know it's a lot to ask and I'm sorry, but I just...I don't want to go back to the dark place that I climbed out of, but I can feel myself slipping back into it and it's scaring me.
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I think sometimes people just need some space. I went through this with my best friend. I learnt to focus on myself and learnt to be happy by myself. I reckon you should try that as well
ReplyIt must be so hard for you to experience something like this. How about trying to open up to new people? Try to talk to new people so you won't be lonely anymore. Even you can talk to me if you want to. I wish i can give you hug now. But i hope you won't feel alone if you get new friend. Wish you luck :)
ReplyWell, i will happily be your friend, because i am going through the same thing, or i was, just recently. I learned to give people space, but at the same time let them know that you are there. say something like, "Hey, it's okay if you don't wanna talk, but if you ever do, i am here, and i will listen." Believe me, it will be okay. :) if you want to be friends, just tell me when you can!
Sincerely,
Wolfe
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