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So, my gf cheated on me, she is the really shy but actually perv kind of person, she had asked me once about open relationships, but we said we would preffer a monogamous relationship. And she finally told me all that happened (i think and hope that was all), she asked him to masturbate in front of her, they kissed, she touched him over the clothes, he licked her boobs. We talked about all that shit for like 4 days, she isn't so empathic and she wanted me to talked with her like her best friend so i told her she did something incredibly wrong and i felt broken, i told her everything i was feeling and she started feeling for real all the stupid things she did, she told me she regretted it, she cried and we talked about if we could stay together, i told her everything i needed. At the end she said, she would do what i needed to feel better, she will talk with the dude and tell him everything she told me (how dirty she feels, how much she regrets it and that she was sorry about everything). Today i told her that if she promised to take care of my feelings for real this time i would forgive her and so she did. I kissed her on the lips and she started crying telling me how bad she feels and started apologizing. She told me she realized she was stupid and that she just wants to love me and to do sexual stuff again someday just with me. When i left her house i felt everything was going to be ok.... should i trust my feelings with this?
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I believe in second chances. Do you?
If you're willing to stay with her, be sure you give yourself a limit because some people don't learn or change; therefore, you need to give YOURSELF an ultimatum and tell yourself what YOUR limit is.
Can you still stay with her after forgiving her X amount of times?
Are you willing to forgive, forget, and move on?
Don't forget, it's okay to put yourself first in a relationship.
Best wishes, this is just my two cents. :)
ReplyI think following your heart is always good but never let your feelings cloud your logical judgement. From an outsiders POV, it seems like this girls just wants to use you for sex. It's probably difficult for you but do sit down and really think it through, whether this relationship is actually worth it. I hope you find an answer soon, don't hurt yourself for a love that may only be on sided.
Replyitll take time but if she really loves you give her a second chance.
give this time and youll eventually gain the trust.
ReplyI think you should. she seems to really regret what she has done and you two should be able to move forward from this. I believe in you.
ReplyWhen people love each other, they don't cheat in the first place! There's really no inbetween. Betrayal is betrayal. If it's forgivable really depends on the severity of the damage done.
Trust is broken and very hard to gain back, it will never be the same.
I don't believe is she is really remorseful and doesn't deserve a second chance for cheating.
Cheating is a choice, not a mistake.
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