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I don’t really know how to start this, well.. I just need some help I guess, here’s my problem. Well I had this friend that I met in the very beginning of the summer and we soon started dating. But I was told that he wasn’t going to be here with me and my friends, since he’ll be going somewhere else. We were all sad but I think I was the saddest out of all of them. It’s just been really hard for me to actually find someone I really like, whenever I like anyone they always seem to leave, I’ve only liked two guys (if you include the one I was with, that makes two) and they both have seemed to move and I just feel like I can’t find love in this life. Cause every time I like someone in that way, they just always ending leaving in some sort of way. Currently all of my friends have people that they like and are dating and although I am very happy for them, it’s just hard cause I’m still struggling about the person I loved. I still hope that I’ll see him, but I highly doubt that will happen, I’m trying to stay calm about it and not cry about it. It’s just really hard to and my heart feels really heavy. I just don’t know what to do anymore and it’s extremely hard to get over.
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It’s so hard but time helps take time to relax and keep busy with things that make you happy. You don’t have to be in a relationship to be happy and the right person will come. If that person is him then it will work. Thing happen for a reason. Sending love and hugs, it will be okay 💜
ReplyThank you so very much! This truly does mean a lot, thank you 💕
Replyoh my god finally i've found someone who has gone through a shit hole like i have too :( it sucks so bad i know, especially the times you need that person most, or when you're alone with nothing to distract you, right? i also get when you're friends are either not into dating and want to stay single forever, or are successfully in love with their partner... and you're just there, sort of in a weird in between mix.
i've learned, that sometimes you have to let someone find you, and not find someone to like. that special someone you 100001% deserve, and will treat you like a queen, will come, it just will (very cliche) take a matter of time *^*
and idk if this will help, but don't try to stop yourself from crying, or keep yourself calm. where ever you are, any time and place, it doesn't matter, when you feel the peak of sadness, or like your heart feels so dense it's going to sink out of your body, just get it out: cry. i did this in class, i was on the edge of crying, my eyes were so watery, i decided to just let it go. i cried and cried (as quietly as i could of course), and just asked my teacher to go to the bathroom. there's the factor that it's embarrassing or other assholes might make fun of you or start rumors or something. but what i've found, is when you're going through such a heartbreak that it's always with you, 24/7, getting rid of the hurt is all you could think about... sorry if it doesn't make sense, or doesn't really help aha...
another thing, is type out a letter that you'll never send (like on this site maybe), or record a video of yourself, just ranting, and idk saying what you'd say to the guy(s). something like that, something you can wait a couple minutes before watching/reading it, and reflecting on everything you've been through.
it's good to keep busy and involve yourself in things to be distracted, but to truly be over someone, you have to be able to say it out loud, and mean it when you say, "i don't like/love you anymore, or, i'm over you," sorry if this doesn't help ahhhhh
i just completely understand and wish i could legit just pull you out of the ditch you accidentally tripped into aha... there will always be heartbreak, it's just a matter of accepting how you feel, realizing the negatives in the situation, and realizing how much better of a person you'll be and feel, once you get rid of such heavy feelings.
i know you'll get out of this, for sure. just follow your gut :) ahh i wish you the best!!! sending love <3
- Ro
ReplyThank you so very much! I’m so glad that I’m not the only person who is going through this, I’ll keep your advice in mind and thank you so very much for your help, I truly do appreciate it! 💕
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