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I recently found out that my bf of almost 2 years is still married to his first wife. He gave his reasons why he still is and they all make sense and even though I said I understand it bothers me... they have been separated for many years now but still the fact is he lied to me. I had come across a paper of his ( we live together) and it said something mentioning that. I had asked him about it and he said he wasnt. Thinking back there was sooo many times that he could have said something but didnt. When he told me i immediately turned around and started to cry... i couldnt look at him. I feel the need to cry more for some reason. When i found that paper originally i balled my eyes out and now I feel so stupid. He says after we move which is very soon hes finally going to get that ball rolling to file the paperwork since he wants to propose to me... he kept assuring me he loves me and how much he loves me but i cant help feel hurt and betrayed. I cant stop thinking about it every time i look at him. Why does this fact bother me when I know they are nothing ?
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Also he said he didnt tell me because he was afraid of me being upset like i got anyways and leaving him...
ReplyLogically it makes sense, sometimes people avoid divorce because they don't want to pay alimony... but it's also a bad sign because it means he is selfish.
AND he hid it and lied to you. So he is both selfish and untrustworthy.
You might be better off by ending it now. If he marries you and you guys separate, he will likely just do the same thing... avoid filing for divorce even if that's what you want.
Why stay with someone who is trying to control another person like that?
How do you know he doesn't talk to his "ex" behind your back? Or that he still wants to be with her and is just waiting for her to return to him?
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