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We've broken up a year ago and we are still in touch. Honestly , this isn't working. We keep talking about the same things over and over and I'm so bored. You keep asking me whether I have a new bf and then you tell me that u had sex blah blah blah. It just hurts each time we talk. Because perhaps I still feel something for u and it hurt like hell when u told me u slept with 3 other girls. Don't u get it? Dont u think this hurts me? Whatever friendship we have isn't really real if it's hurting me but u keep messaging and my heart flutters. Nothing can happen between us because of the distance but that doesn't mean my heart skips a beat seeing ur name pop up , even if i know it will be the same old questions and talk. And after that it hurts internally so much. So I don't know , should I cut off ties completely? In a way I do , In another I don't.....
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some people manage to stay "friends" after they break up but others keep having emotional feelings and they see it better if they cut off for good. Now if you feel pain and sadness everytime he talks to you and he keeps pushing your buttons then it's better if you cut him off. I'm sure it won't be easy, but you don't deserve the pain he causes you. No woman should ever feel that she's not enough.
ReplyIt is not a matter of not feeling good enough at all. If someone keeps bringing up sex when you are just friends than there is something wrong. Their intention is to make you or their SO jealous. Pit each against each other and I do not want any part in those types of games. It is not because you still have feelings at all but you see through the games and know they are trying to discount you. Those types of games are boring and is not a true friendship at all. You did not want them and they are trying to hurt you for you being you. I do not sleep with someone to get even nor use someone to make someone jealous. If you play those games then keep playing them but with someone else. I gained my sexuality back for me and not to compete with who can be more sexy or more open or to put on a performance. I am not here for you but for me. Sex is NOT a tool to me. I get some of you get your worth by that, not me.
Replydear X,
i have been in a similar situation as this and the best thing is to remove them entirely. they are trying to hurt you. i assume they are the one that broke up with you, and here is how it probably went down. after he left you. He meet someone, they acted flirty he was like nothing i can do in a relationship. dumped you tried to get with other person only to find out they was flirting. leaving him with blue balls and fist in his gut. He did the whole lets stay friend schtick you agreed cause you still loved him. he talks about his "conquests" but in reality hes not sleeping with anyone.
X he is really just trying to make you jelly so you come back to him, or atleast try and he gets what he wants. people will never learn what they have even after its gone cause they think its always a choice when there is no other option. you just have to learn that someone out there thinks that you are their first choice. dont take second to no one. Example, there is one girl i love and i will love forever. She knows it but im last in line so instead i find someone i can love and will love myself the same way. i have yet to find them but i know they're out here somewhere.
Remove this toxic person from your life, or you will suffer for your choice. Ive seen many people continue down the path your on only to watch them be abused and hurt wore and worse. and those people dont want help cause they believe their S/O can change and it wont happen again. so please X (you) dump the idiot go live your life even if your sad now you wont be cant be sad forever.
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