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The story is kind of long but I really need help. Let's call my guy best friend Leo. We both call each other best friends.
So I'm texting one of Leo's friends (Chris) and he asks if I like Leo. I say, "No, we're just best friends." Chris says, "Doesn't matter anyways, he likes someone anyways."
I'm shocked. I think that he is lying because I'm so sure Leo would have told me because we're best friends. So I say, "No he doesn't." Chris says, "Yes, he does. I'm surprised you don't know." I ask, "Who?". And Chris says, "I can't say." I say, "Okay I respect that. I'll just ask Leo"
I ask Leo if he likes anyone. He says, "Uhm." I say, "Is that a yes or no?" He says, "Uhm. That's my answer. Why, who told you? I say, "Idk if I can say, sorry." He leaves me on read. I say, "What's wrong?" Left on read. Then I say, "Lmao k bye." Left on read. We haven't talking in a full day. I didn't want to text him first because I usually do and he was the one who left me on opened.
The problem is that we both call each best friends and the fact that someone else knew something that I didn't kind of hurt. Him and Chris aren't even close; even Chris was shocked I didn't know because we're "best friends." I don't appreciate how Leo made me look dumb.
I don't know what to do. I feel like I should cut him off, but I'm so attached him and I care for him so much. The thing is I've already lost three of my best friends this year and well I guess I might lose another one. I give Leo so much effort, love, attention, but a lot of times I feel like the same energy is not given back. Like sometimes it is, but sometimes it's not. Leo always says he loves me and this and that. But I don't feel it. I trust him completely, but apparently he doesn't trust me. I guess that means we're not best friends anymore because they should be able to trust each other fully. :/
Please help me on how to handle this situation and if I should cut him off. Thank you!
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Are you a girl? If so it makes sense he would tell a guy friend about his crush and not you. Guys don't like telling other girls unless they have a serious girlfriend, then they tell them.
I would suggest maybe expand your "best friends" and meet some other people. You don't have to cut Leo off, just make some new friends and find someone else to get close to. If you're a girl, it should be a girl too, since there are things guys and girls can't talk about that you can say to another girl.
ReplySo should I text him first or wait until he texts me? Should I try talking it out with him or just distance myself. And yes ima girl
ReplyDefinitely don't cut him off. It might feel like a betrayal, but someday you will be so glad you stayed friends. He is probably just embarrassed. Tell him how you feel, and then leave it at that. Dont push him, and in all likelihood he will come to you.
cut him the fuck off
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ReplyLeo should've been more respectful of you as his best friend and told you the fact that he was talking to someone. It doesn't matter if you're a girl or a boy because it is simply common courtesy to tell your best friend what is going on with your life. If they don't then they obviously do not hold you to that high of a standard they should. I'm not saying that you should cut him off, but simply ask to what extent is he willing to share things with you. And what does that mean for your friendship?
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