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this is a personal topic so if you’re uncomfortable feel free and ignore me
im a female and a virgin, and I really want to have sex. like it’s gotten so bad that I’m practically obsessed with the idea of having sex. i just really wanna have it. but I’ve never masturbated cause it doesn’t feel good when I do. It feels weird and uncomfortable. I also don’t think I’ve ever been turned on, but idk how that feels. when I think about sex, mentally I like it. but physically, idk if I will cause i can’t masturbate. ive only had almost sex dreams and never an actual one. is it possible that when I actually have sex I’ll like it knowing I can’t masturbate? I really hope so. Please help.
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Maybe you could transfer the obsession onto something new. I'm a Christian, so don't believe in pre-marital sex or masturbation. Its against the commandments of God, and my only advice is to wait until you're married. I know that's not the answer you were looking for :)
ReplyYou have explore your own body before letting someone else explore it.
ReplyThis.
Sex for the first time, second... few times, with that partner, or maybe even the next...Let me tell you... probably won't be great. I'm in my thirties and only now thinking about what I really want and like.
Sounds like you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself for the masturbating thing, which is literally the opposite of the aim of masturbating. Chill, just see if/when the mood takes you and if you feel self-conscious, remember it's just you and it's your body. There's no harm or shame in it, so relax and see what you like.
ReplyI gave my virginity to the guy that I thought I was in love with. and honestly, I wish I didn't. I wish It would have been with anyone else. sex for the first time can make you feel some pretty strong things. so that's why our breakup was so heartbreaking. you will know when the time is right. I don't masturbate either. it feels NOTHING like having sex. find someone that you feel is right for you to lose your virginity to.
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