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I have no one to talk to about this, and I probably never will. I'm only a 14yo female, and I think about this all the time. My sister in one of my best friends in the entire world, and I couldn't imagine my life without her. However, when I was younger, 5-8?? I can't remember a timeline, but she would rape me. I can only remember bits and pieces I don't want to go into detail about, but she made it seem like a game. Keep in mind, she's 7 years older than I am, so she was 12-15 when this was happening (I think, again, I don't remember a lot) and I remember myself saying " I don't like this " but she wouldn't stop. She did it so often I think that's why I don't remember a lot of it. But, the part I feel so lost about is that I've NEVER heard of a younger sister being raped by an older one. I've heard of males being raped by their sister, but never female and quite frankly it makes me feel so alone sometimes. I constantly wonder if it's ever happened to anyone else and how they dealt with it? I don't know how to because although it was traumatizing and I hate thinking about it, she's my best friend now. I love hanging out with her and spending time with her (shes 21 now) and she's super cool. She'll help me with ANYTHING I ask her for help for (covering up my trouble, homework, anything.) and yet she did that to me so many years ago? It's just confusing.
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I’m sorry, I’ve never dealt with a situation like this, but maybe you should talk to her about it? Idk just a suggestion
ReplyHey I’m a 15yr girl so Hi! I have almost the same experience, my brother did that also when I was the same age, honestly it sucks I’ll never forget it. I have to see him everyday, so ultimately you are not alone:) I shouldn’t say my name but here’s my middle, Xavier and I’m from Wyoming:) your not alone and neither am I now.
Replyim the poster of this, and i just wanted to thank you so much for you comment, i cried tears of happiness knowing im not alone. thank you so much :)
ReplyTry to find someone you know you can trust to talk to about it. Any relatives you think you could trust whom youre close with? Even your mom? I would feel and be confused too. Your sister could be unpredictable if you tried talking to her about it even if she does stick up for you so im not sure you should try to ask her about it unless you really thought you could get an answer.
ReplyThere's a chance that someone older was playing these "games" with her too, and this was her way of dealing.
Try counseling and start setting boundaries with her. She's cool, and you are cool too. Work towards your self-reliance. Once you have distance from her, you'll be ready to untangle this and come forward.
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