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I am very self conscious and I think I’m ugly as hell. I have very few friends and my best friend just considers me as one of her best friends. To her I’m just another friend. To me, she is my light. (No homo) She is not ugly but I am very ugly. I am 2 years younger than her and I’m fat and ugly and she used to date my crush. (She doesn’t know that I have a crush on her ex). I’m positive that people find me annoying and Jude me because of my appearance. I do have anxiety and I am antisocial and I think I might have depression? A lot of my friends are pretty and I’m just the blob that isn’t supposed to be there. Nobody has ever told me they like me. 4 people have told my best friend that they like her. She has so many friends and I envy her. She pretty popular in her grade. When I get out of the shower I just feel sad. I don’t even know why but I just do. I feel horrible and I just want someone outside of my family to hug me and tell me that everything is fine. To tell me that they love me and support me. I’ve seen videos on instagram that people say “every girl deserves to be happy. Every girl should be loved. Girls are like flowers. Delicate. If you’re a girl, know that you are loved and supported.” Yeah those are kind words but who are they to say that??? They are strangers. They could be on the other side of the earth. They don’t even know who you are. They have never seen you, and they are telling you that they support you and love you???? What do they know about you?? How do they know that people love you??? How do they know that people don’t hate you???? Is it their place to say that you are worth something???? They don’t even know who you are, so HOW DO THEY KNOW??!! What if you are just some stupid ugly loner who cares for so many people with no love in return. I’m not saying that if I care for you,you have to praise me. No. What I’m saying is, can at least one of you people that I care about,care and love me too?— I’m gonna be a 7th grader (turning 13 in February 2020) and I hate myself a lot of the time.
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First of all, I don't believe for a second that you're ugly. I've never actually seen anyone in person that I thought was ugly. Not one. I see beauty in everyone. You're a precious and beautiful creation of God. And another thing, our culture is preoccupied with appearance and it's actually REALLY shallow. Personally I think it's great that you don't have a lot of pride in yourself, because God loves the humble and he hates pride. I think humility could save you. Our looks are not what life is really about. Life is about finding God and giving our lives to him and serving others (which is serving God). Anything else doesn't matter, and that's the perspective I'm taking. I hope the same for you. GodBless You :)
ReplyI was going to try
to say something encouraging but i think you nailed it perfectly
ReplyRight on the money.
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