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Ok. I am 18 and i only kissed one boy my entire life. He was my friend and after we kissed he stopped talking to me. So kind of wasnt a good start.
Idk what's wrong with me. I REALLY DON'T KNOW how to talk to boys, it is like they are aliens for me. Idk. I dont feel comfortable, and i usually dont know how to act and what to talk about. It always took me a while to be comfortable around the boys i knew, but now it is even worst cause i am at college, and idk, i feel like all they want and like is girls who scream and fuck around and i know that i am not like this. I need friendship first. I don't date. I never dated. And idk how to date and flirt and stuff, so i NEED the friendship first. But how am i going to get to know people and maybe make friends if i dont know anyone??
My class is full of girls. And if i cant even make friendship with them, how i am gonna make friendship with people from other classes or outside the college??
Idk. I think i am just too weird.
I just cant imagine how will someone ever like me. How am i going to meet someone... i always liked the story about the perfect guy and stuff but...what if my perfect guy doesn't exists? I mean, how will anyone see me and think i am perfect for them? I am the perfect definition for unlovable. I am a fucking mess.
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I’m a guy and I feel the exact same way.. I’m 20 and after every year goes by I question myself as well... in my opinion being yourself is what matters the most of course it’s something you hear all the time but it’s true. You’re gonna change and it sucks but, that’s just a part of life and I’m sure you’ll find someone right for you, just always stick to your moral compass some people are good and some people are bad. You don’t need to change yourself for others, just always try to remember that you’re one person and there’s no one in the world exactly like you!! Be confident!! Certain people will like your personality it takes patience and confidence just hang in there! I’m sure things will get better for you!! You’re not weird btw it’s normal, I’m rooting for you!!
ReplyI’m a girl, 20. I can relate to what you’re saying because I don’t have that many guy friends either but I think I’m just shy and sometimes I wish to have a close friendship with a guy without me thinking it can become a relationship or something. I wish I can just be close with them! And when it comes to dating I think I’m not confident enough😭🤧. I have also thought about not finding anyone in the future to have a family with 😖. I’ve dated before and I currently have a crush on someone but I give him wrong signals he probably thinks I don’t like him and I hate myself for that sometimes. You are not alone in this. My mom tells me I should learn to love myself before loving someone else. Luck to both of us hun💗
ReplyHey there! Reading your write up, I feel I'm more or less like you.. I'm also sort of unromantic, don't know how to flirt and stuffs..but then you know you never need to change yourself to get your "perfect one". Just be yourself and trust me whoever was supposed to fall for you, would eventually. That person will find you perfect, no matter what you don't know or lack. I'm telling this from my experience. I also suck at this flirting and dating stuffs. But eventually, this guy came in my life from somewhere and for the first time in last 19 years, someone told me " You are weird and different..just like me! And it will be stupid to let someone rare and unique go you know?"..and we are together now..so believe in yourself, be what you are. Your "perfect one" will find you anyway! And never forget to smile and love yourself in the first place! :-D
Replywe are almost the same but i haven't yet kiss a guy since i am a no boyfriend since birth but already experience heartaches. I am 18 and a college student too. College life is very challenging since ive notice that I have many classmates and some of them are in a relationship ( i feel so out of place) I haven't have close friends at school , sometimes i think i dont wanna go to school anymore but i put in mind that the right guy will come at a right time... so dont hurry for a lovelife ma pren
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