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I dumped my ex years ago, and it was hard. We used to be so cool as friends an then when he asked me out i was scared it ruin our friendship; I asked him "what if it didn't work out? could we still go back to even being friends?" He said yea. It didn't end well on my end. I didn't love him like that anymore, but he really fell for me. So when I broke it off he was persistent to get me back, asking the reason for me leaving. He clearly couldn't be my friend anymore, and he even admit that..
But after all these years we still sort of message from time to time. He's been good now, like as a friend again. I see on social media he's always asking people if they wana go see a movie, then he asked me in direct message recently. I was hesitant but I said yes. He started liking my stuff on facebook and commented "beautuful" twice in one post. In my last post I shared about trying to find the right love or something and he commented again how he could relate.
We supposed to go to the movies this Saturday but I messaged last night that if he still liked me then we probably shouldn't go, but that if he just wanted to go as friends I was cool with that too. I emphasised again at the end "but that's it. Just as friends" and he message back this morning "yea just as friends" so I asked if we were still on for Saturday and he said "Can we go Sunday around 8pm to watch Scary Stories". A scary movie, at night? What does this mean?
Am I overthinking that he might still like me? Or is he still cool as my friend? I really have been wanting to see that one... lol can someone please me
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He’s very obviously in love with you. Tbh I don’t think you should go with him . Possibly the best thing you can do is tell him to move on and cut ties . Always easier said than done. It’s unhealthy for him to keep this up. He’s gotta let go .
Best of luck
ReplyThanks.. how exactly should I respond to his last message about Sunday then? Like do I just straight up tell him to move on lol or?
I'm not really sure, although I have been told to just be straight forward with guys because they don't always understand if we ease into emotional conversations or whatever 😅
ReplyDo you think it would be okay if I just said this? :
" Hey, I'm sorry. I thought about, and I thought I would be okay with us just hanging out as friends too, but I guess not. It would actually feel uncomfortable for me.. plus I'm talking to someone right now and idk how they would feel if they knew i was friends with a boy lol 😅 Again I'm so sorry, hope you understand /: "
ReplyThis could work . Guys sometimes ,not often, respond better when you’re straight up with them. I know it’s a habit for us to drop hints but it seems to do wonders when you’re “straight up” with a guy like”hey yeah it bugs me that’s it’s just you and me I really don’t like you in that way maybe we should go our separate ways” just an example. Your response is better btw .
ReplyBtw ,sorry I know you asked for a guy’s advice instead you got me sorry .
ReplyNo this was still perfect, thank you again (:
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