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I want polygamy with someone who I feel a strong pull for, but I know my partner, who I also have a strong pull for, won't approve if I asked. He doesn't even want marriage... I guess I have to give up a little bit more, no? God, I'm never satisfied. Stupid virgo tendencies. I just want to be 100% happy with my partner, but, I'm 93% sure that I can't. I want marriage, he doesn't. He doesn't like the idea of being someone's husband, and I get that, but... I want marriage. I wonder if he's just a soul mate. If he is, then why are our souls so connected? I don't get it at all... I want to date the other person with my partner, but my partner already said no. Oh well, guess I'll never be 100% happy with him..
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If he's sure that he doesn't want to be married and it's something you're sure that you definitely want, then maybe you should consider leaving him. Really think about what you want from this relationship, and if you're confident, talk to him about it. You need to decide whether you want him more or marriage.
ReplyHe doesn't feel comfortable with the thought of being someone's husband, that's the problem
ReplyThe problem is this:
People are selfish.
You’re selfish and so is your partner. You both want two different things in two different ways. You want to be married to him, you want him and everyone else in the world to know that the two of you are each other’s. He doesn’t want to be tied down to you like that, but also doesn’t want to share you with another person. The actual problem is that you guys have two fundamentally different views of your relationship and therefore two different views of where you want the relationship to go.
ReplyPeople can be so blind . Love the one your with. Whole heartedly . With every ounce of your being x
ReplyFirst rule of us boring monogamous folk:
We've already decided that poly people aren't worth fighting for or stressing ourselves over. We're not loyal beasts of burden waiting passively for you to remember us... we'll bolt at the first sign of disrespect or triangulation.
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