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I have struggled with masturbation and porn since my high school years. Trying to give it up. Ive always come back to it eventually. It makes me feel like a monster. It makes me feel guilty. I know masturbation once in a while isnt a big deal and is natural. For me it has become a problem just because in my mind its wrong. It has affected me very negatively sometimes the urge gets so strong i just become to weak and give in. Im going to try something different this time. Keep a daily log on novni reporting how im feeling about myself everyday i abstain from porn and masturbation. Also what effects i feel. I know for a fact already i feel better aboit myself even as little as 10 days after i abstain. I feel more confident and in control of my life. So far my longest time abstaining is 87 days. Im shooting for at least 90 this time. You will hear from me soon.
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You can do it, buddy! keep being motivated!
ReplyPorn and other addictions are like sea water, the more we drink, the thirstier we get. I celebrate your volition and will power to undertake such a challenge. In my faith, this is known as combat with the self.
The self is categorized as animalistic state (which becomes when we only fall for tastes and pleasures without excercising control and authority of our rationality).
The second state is an intermediate state (which we are rational enough to know and abstain somewhat, but keep falling here and there).
Lastly, with much practice and self control, one may reach the level of the pure soul (which simply occurs through practice of avoiding these shackles and completely dominating the soul under the authority of intellect, such that our emotions, behavior, creativity, and so forth are all harmonized under the reign of the innate miracle of the human being.. intellect).
I wish you the best of luck and ask you keep your brother in humanity in your remembrance, as you are not the only one.
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