What are you looking for?
Featured Topics
Select a topic to start reading.
i'm an elementeary school teacher. i have a stundent that i have been keeping in touch with for 9 years, he visits me once every year (he is about 17 now). this year however his visits were more frequent and during his visits his hands were way below my waist when we hug. i thought it was just accidents the first few times but i started to feel like they aren't now. he hugs (ands gropes) me like 4 times every visit (excluding the hello and goodbye hugs) and as i said the visits got frequent. i don't know how to tell him this. i'm afraid i'll hurt him, embarrass him or even worse but i'm also afraid if he is getting encourged when i keep quiet, thinking i want it. i'm not sure if i want it or not too. what should i do? should i tell him? how do i tell him? should i just play along? wait until he is 18? (i'm not american/british so my english my have some flaws)
If you see a comment that is unsupportive or unfriendly, please report it using the flag button.
Most of the questions should be up to you. But my advice is that... Don't pretend to love someone when you don't want to commit with them or when you're not ready, even if you care about them.
Remember, you can always say "No". And their response is their responsibility, not yours.
ReplyI'm going to be straight up and honest here.
I don't know what you're age is, but in my professional opinion, you should definitely talk with him and make it known and aware you want what's been happening to stop. He's still underage and that too should cross your mind that this isn't something, in your field of work, that you should be doing, and honestly in general...
Replydepending on where u live, if anything goes down between u live its illegal and i doubt u want to risk ur career and life for a boy. tell him straight up ur not interested and he needs to chill if ur to stay in touch
ReplyIf you're married, stay away, if you aren't wait until he is legal. Then you can have sex with him if you want. As much as you want.
ReplyI also have a crush/love for a teacher and I don't know if he knows it or not. So, in my perspective, you should say something to show that you are not interested in having "special relationship“ with him. You don't need to say it very straight-forward because he may get hurt because of that. Just briefly mentions that you are in a relationship now or something else. When he knows that, he will be more mindful of keeping a teacher-student distance with you.
NOT saying or reacting anything is actually an act of encouraging him to think that you also like him!
Reply