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I'm a girl, if that's relevant, and I could use some advise.
So I have this... Friend?.... I like him a lot but even his parents don't appreciate him hanging out with me since I am a bad influence. The only problem is I really really enjoy his company. I never feel like a horrible person when I'm with him, we get along really well, but then he leaves and I'm surrounded by people telling me to leave him alone and that I'm not good enough for him. It hurt but I told him I was leaving the social media platform I talked to him on, and didn't tell him how else to get ahold of me. He still found a way and I don't know what to say. A part of me wants to say, "I want to be a better person for you. I value your friendship and hated the idea of not talking to you. Just never leave me." But the practical side of me knows that I can't keep doing this. I can't be a better person. I guess I shouldn't be looking for advise on what to do, I should be asking for advise on how to get over him. I'm so confused and depressed. Help me.
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to answer your question, shoot your shot and be straight with him. tell him straight up you like him as more then a friend. being forward makes no room for things to be interpreted wrong or in a different way. if he says no then come back and novni will help you get over him. also he likes you back just a bit if not a bunch he spent his time to find another way to get ahold of you.
ReplyI only like him as a friend, nothing more. But I don't know that I can really consider him a friend as I really shouldn't ever talk to him. I can't help it, he's so awesome!
ReplyFirst you should think why u r a bad influence ?
dnt chase someone , chasing always hurts. if u really want him , make yourself worthy. its the truth none likes an unworthy person in their life. u love someone dearly but if he thinks u r not worthy , it just ends.
u study u make yourself , do what is best for u, if he likes u he will come . if not u will get a better way . it always hurts when we like someone and there is a cold response from the other side or the environment. u cant change this but can change yourself , make yourself gud enough for what u want to have . last thing, dnt chase , become worthy and he will be with u
ReplyFirst of all, you have to realize 1 thing: what you are and how you affect other people isn't FULLY decided by you, it's mainly based on how it impacts others. You can't be a bad influence if you're in a bad state or didn't walk the right path. You never harmed anyone (blindly speaking) and I don't think you like hurting people, since you dislike being a bad person after meeting him.
What happened is you compared him with yourself, and you saw the actual difference between you and someone like him. + all the toxicity you've been getting from others has affected you immensely. Don't listen to what people say. They'd literally talk shit for no apparent reason. What I advise you to do is just shoot your shot and let him know how you truly feel. When you left social media and he still found you, it's clear that he cares about you enough to seek for you, despite not having a clue where you may be. It's your feelings and his. Keep it that way. What other people say doesn't matter. Only with him you'll find the change you desperately need, towards the better self you speak of.
Trust me, it isn't as bad as it seems. I walked your shoes for a long time.
ReplyThank you so much. I waited too long and I lost him, but I really appreciated every word you said and all the time and effort you put into the sentiment. Have a blessed day!
Respectfully,
The Dragon
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