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I never dated anyone in my entire life..and that really gets into my nerves you know. I am 19 and i am in college, i see couples around me all the time, or people just being together and i cant help it but feel alone. I am always alone.
Idk my problem, i wish i had someone, but how am i going to get someone if i am not the prettiest or the most interest gurl in the room? No one looks at me. And when they do i kind of freeze, and dont know how to act. But lets be honest right, i dont even remember the last time someone even looked at me or liked me. Idk.
I just wish i was as special as the other girls. Idk what i do wrong that i am never the one notice.
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You are very special x
ReplyYou're special it's just that your special someone hasn't found you yet but he's on his way, probably looking for you without knowing it's you until he meets you
You don't have to be the prettiest or most interestng in the room, but you will be that and more to someone
ReplyIt feels Like you just wrote about my life...i'm 19 as well and haven't had a boyfriend in my entire life, not even one person confessed to me ever!...i always thought it is my fault, i'm chubby, no one likes chubby girls, i'm not skinny, i'm not pretty enough...but that's not true at all, just because you don't look like a instagram model (although they photoshop everything anyways) or dress like other girls doesn't mean that you're not pretty. i'm sure you are very sweet but people nowadays see more the outside of a person and don't take their time to get to know the real you. Everyone has their own beauty standart and view of what it pretty. I'm sure that someone will come and you'll be absolutely his type! don't worry too much about how you look and just be yourself! take your time and don't feel pressured..having a boyfriend and being in a relationship is not a challenge you need to do or a trend you need to follow, just follow your heart and be honest with yourself! ❤
Replysome of us guys like chubby girls. lets be honest, boys what a piece they can act strong around men want someone to grow old with.
ReplyTrue, grown up men (or people in general) tend to already search for a partner they can start a real life with...meanwhile young people focus more on the phisical apearence (not all of course)...
ReplyGod has paired every human with another human. The day will come when the person for you will stumble by your path
ReplyWell you can be special in your own way because i think there is thousands and thousands of people around you so your soul mate must be waiting for you
Replyyou just described my life. I'm 19 too and never been in a relationship before. When I look myself in the mirror I think yeah I'm not that bad but as soon as I'm out with people I feel so ugly and uncomfortable and SO NOT confident.
ReplyAs other people said, you are special. Want a fun fact? I met my boyfriend on Tinder when I was at my lowest. I was a total jerk to myself and people around me. He still waited months to have me, and one day I'm sure you'll find someone who deserve you for what you are. Never ever change for people and for guys, they're not worth your time and the person you are. Months before, I was thinking just like you, '' why I never date anyone or why do no one notice me?''. Results, I slept around with several guys, any kind of guys who didn't give a shit about me, they just wanted sex, and I did this because I wanted to feel loved. Don't do that, you'll regret right after, it is not a way to heal this urge to feel loved.. But what I want to say is that you will be special for someone one day. Sometimes it takes time, sometimes it just fall on you and you can't even realize what happened. I feel you, it is hard when you want to be loved. It is human after to want someone who take care of you and make you feel special. You will be, don't worry about that. :) Not feeling loved or wanting to be loved is one complex feeling girl, but we're still young at 19. I'm 19 too and I though it would never happen to me because I was such a mess. I was wrong. Wait, don't think too much about that and don't make you sick about that. You'll be loved and people here are there to support you. <3
ReplyGo out gurl .... there are so many ppl around you who are like you who are alone and single maybe afraid to make a first move ...
ReplyYou are going to find someone, and they will be the one, you are just as amazing as anyone else, those girls you talk about are nothing like you, they don't have the strengths and positives that you do. you will find someone, just give it time <3
but also remember that right now you are simply finding yourself before finding someone else
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