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I’m 30 weeks pregnant (7months and 2 weeks) I have a partner and all the support from friends and family. I keep telling myself that I am enjoying my pregnancy and that everything is great but i’m honestly getting tired of it. Before my pregnancy my partner would hit me and when I got pregnant I thought things would change but they haven’t. Just last week he whipped me with the belt until my butt was so bruised and swollen I couldn’t sit, he blames me for doing these things to me because he says that I provoke him by being clumsy and what not. But most of the things I do that upset him are because of my pregnancy. At first I believed him that it was me who made him do these things to me but he says I don’t care for my baby because if I did I would not be doing stupid things like knocking things over and getting punished for it but to me it seems like he doesn’t care since he’s hurting me and sometimes when he pushes/knocks me over something hits my stomach and he threatens me and my family if I say anything about what he does to me.
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girl, i hope that you know that you're in a very dangerous situation. no matter what your life was like with your partner before the abuse started, those days are definitely far behind you two now. i know you might think that if you talk to anyone, friends, family or the police, that he would get angry and hurt you even more but you really do need to reach out to someone. you are in need of desperate help and support. please, for the sake of you and your baby, please reach out to someone who can help you face to face.
ReplyGet out of this toxic relationship please for your sake and baby! You need to reach out to people who love you, who you can trust and that will help you out.
Once you leave him, he will make every and many attempts to convince you to go back with him.
He will give you false promises that he changed for the better. DO NOT FALL FOR IT! Men who are like this need to save themselves and get psychological help. You won't be able to save him and change this man. A sorry to physical abuse is really not enough and he will keep reoffending if you let him. His behaviour is very aggressive and there is no excuse in the world for him to be doing this to you. Nothing can justify in causing you physical and emotional abuse. His reaction to you bumping into things isn't right and it shouldn't be a big deal when you're carrying his child. If you do not leave the situation it could really escalate where your life could end up in danger. It's scary but you really need to consider your safety first and get out.Reach out to a woman's shelter that will give you help and support to victims of domestic violence.
Do what it takes to ensure that he will never hurt you ever again!
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