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I have always had problems with making friends ever since I was little. But it really started to get bad once I was in highschool (I am now 20). I have never really had any real friend and always felt super lonely. When I was in highschool I fell into this really dark place. Then when I got into university I met someone and I became friends with them, I was friends with almost 2 years. We would talk almost everyday and we would hang out all the time. During that time I finally was starting to feel happy that there is someone who actually cares about being friends with me. And then at one point it literally went from talking all the time to never talking. I assume that it has to do with because my friend and her bf broke up and it really affected her. So during that I tried my best to be there for her and to make her feel better. But from that point it was very clear she just stopped caring about being my friend, and we would only talk or hang out whenever I would mssg her. But if I dont message her she wouldn't message or initiate conversation first. I know that she still talks and hangs out with her other friends, so like im the only one she stopped talking to. And im honestly so confused on what I should do because I feel like no matter how much I try to make friends it just doesnt work. Either if im talking to someone new Im extremely awkward and at that point I start thinking "what should I say, what should I do?" so im not saying anything and its just an awkward silence. Or I become friends with someone and after a short period of time we stop being friends. I just feel so lonely and like no one cares about me, and Im just tired of waking up, going to university, studying, sleeping and going to bed. I so badly just want to have a genuine friend but at all I can think about is that there must be something wrong with me because I can't make any friends.
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ReplyStay cheerful buddy. <3
ReplyJoin a club, something you enjoy on campus. Or see if you can get involved in anything extra after classes. It may boost your credits, confidence, friends and happiness level.
ReplyThis is incredibly true
ReplyIt happens all the time in life.. Once upon a time I met this girl and she considered me her BFF. Until one day she revealed to me that she wanted nothi g to do with me anymore. "I don't believe in the whole BFF thing anymore", were some of her words.
Thing is I knew she loved me but she couldn't be with me because of her religion.
Many more years later I discovered in the news that her religion is actually a Cult. They don't associate with us outsiders. The cult leader is currently at court he was caught being a pedo and having tons of cp in his iPad sexually molesting the girls because "God wills it" etc etc. You can learn about it if you search up ' LA Luz Del Mundo'
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